Isy Suttie's six tips for meeting The Actual One – video

How should you act when you come face-to-face with a potential partner? Don’t be scared of silence, don’t be too keen – and make sure you’re brutally, brutally honest about them. Isy Suttie and Stephen Wight demonstrate six ways to check your compatibility

• Isy Suttie is at Soho theatre, London, 15-27 August and then on tour around the UK. Her book The Actual One is out now
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