Have you heard of radical self expression? It’s a powerful movement pioneered by Akilah S. Richards. Check out this video essay by Akilah explaining the beginnings of radical self-expression and how it manifests in her own life. She discusses the negative connotations of the word “radical” and explains how radicalness can be a very positive tool of healing.
3 Tips to Help Deal with Fat Shame from a Healthcare Professional
“Lose 20 pounds, and you’ll feel better.” “If you started exercising, this wouldn’t be a problem.” If you aren’t thin, chances are you’ve gone to the doctor’s office about a lingering cold, or a hurt elbow and had to listen to comments like these from your doctor. These situations can be awkward, and triggering. So can we handle them in the moment?
Gold Star, No Thank You
Have you ever heard the term “gold star gay?” It’s used to describe a gay person who has never had sexual intercourse with a person of a different sex. Here to explain the many ways this term is problematic is queer activist and video blogger Weston Bonczek! Watch as Weston explains how the term “gold star gay” is misogynistic, cissexist, and heteronormative.
Being Pressured to Have Sex: How to Deal
by Erin McKelle
Many a misguided attempt at flirting or misread signal can result in feeling pressured to have sex when you don’t want to. If it crosses into forceful action, or coercion, then your best course of action may be to call the police. But what about the run-of-the-mill misunderstandings? How do you handle those situations and make your intentions clear?
5 Ways to Support a Loved One in Eating Disorder Recovery Over the Holidays
The upcoming holiday season brings with it new hurdles for those recovering from eating disorders. With all the festivities involving food, not to mention the eating-related commentary, the next several months can be a mine field of triggers. So how can you support your loved ones in eating disorder recovery over the holidays? Vlogger and writer Melissa A. Fabello has some ideas!
How Can I Exercise in a Body-Positive Way?
For a lot of people, exercise is a chore. They dread doing it, and if it doesn’t result in the weight loss they were hoping for, it can be even more discouraging. So how can you switch to a more body-positive approach to exercise? In this week’s video headline, Golda Poretsky offers some advice! Watch her explain how to find the right exercise for you, and how to recognize the benefits of it.
Loser Friend
by Lex Croucher
To some, the notion that friends are supposed to build you up and make you feel good is obvious. But for others who are caught in toxic relationships, this may not be as apparent. Vlogger Lex discusses her experiences with “friends” who made her feel unwelcome and unappreciated, the effects of this treatment on her self-worth, and her decision to cut the toxicity out of her life.
How to Apologize When You Get Called Out
I’m Only Friends with Boys
by Angelina LB
“I just don’t get along with girls. They’re all so catty and bitchy.” Chances are, you’ve heard that before. But have you ever thought about the implications of saying this? Watch as Angelina LB discusses the absurdity of writing off an entire group of people, the hypocrisy involved when it’s a group you’re a part of, and how internalized sexism only breeds further sexism.
An Open Letter to Feminist Trolls
Any outspoken feminist will tell you that among the most common insults they receive are “slut,” “bitch,” and “cunt.” But the funny thing is, those are actually among the least effective insults to throw at a feminist! In this week’s video headline, Melissa A. Fabello will discuss the many ways these words fail to do the damage they’re intended to, and how they only make feminism stronger.