![All of these experiences have been a part of my sexual journey, and none of them matter more or less than any other.](/web/20170112004657im_/http://www.smh.com.au/content/dam/images/g/s/y/d/k/h/image.related.landscape.460x307.gsydlo.png/1480285589992.jpg)
Why do we insist that "sex" still has to be penetrative?
During a drunken conversation with a friend recently, she asked how many people I had slept with. I opened my mouth, about to divulge, when she chimed in again: "I mean full sex only. Other stuff doesn't count."