After outrage erupted over Lena Dunham's recent remark that "I still haven't had an abortion, but I wish I had", the Girls star posted a lengthy apology to her Instagram account late Tuesday.
"My words were spoken from a sort of 'delusional girl' persona I often inhabit, a girl who careens between wisdom and ignorance (that's what my TV show is too) and it didn't translate," she said in her Instagram post. "That's my fault."
It was the type of apology many have come to expect from Dunham - complete with self-flagellation, an odd attempt at explanation and a lingering hint of self-absorption. The outspoken writer and actress has sparked plenty of controversy recently, surrounding a couple of her tweets that deal with race, her sexual interactions with her little sister and her suggestion that a star football player was a misogynist.
The most recent outcry began with a comment during Dunham's "Women of the Hour" podcast last week, as she told the story of her visit years ago to a Planned Parenthood clinic in Texas, where a girl asked Dunham if she would share her own abortion story.
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"I sort of jumped. 'I haven't had an abortion,' I told her," she said in the podcast.
It was a moment of self-realisation, she continued, because it suddenly occurred to her that she had internalised some of the stigma that surrounds abortion: "Even I, the woman who cares as much as anybody about a woman's right to choose, felt that it was important that people know that I was unblemished in this department."
She concluded that she had since banished this feeling. "Now I can say that I still haven't had an abortion, but I wish I had," she said.
Not surprisingly, this remark didn't go over well, even among some fellow reproductive rights supporters. Many took to Twitter to distance themselves from her statement and to criticise her for trivialising the procedure:
"As a feminist I wish @lenadunham would just stop already. We have a hard enough time now."
"Let me say as a pro-choicer, I do NOT agree with Lena Dunham."
Her comment was quickly seized by anti-abortion activists, who pointed to it as proof that abortion is glorified by its defenders. Some reproductive rights activists noted that this sort of attention isn't exactly helpful to the cause Dunham aims to champion.
"Treating abortion like a leisurely activity that Lena Dunham can personally help normalize represents a cartoonish version of clueless urban liberalism we'd be well-served to rid ourselves of," Erin Gloria Ryan wrote in the Daily Beast.
As the controversy quickly spread across social media, Dunham posted an apology Tuesday night on her Instagram account, alongside an image of the word "choice".
"I would never, ever intentionally trivialise the emotional and physical challenges of terminating a pregnancy," she wrote. "My only goal is to increase awareness and decrease stigma. I take reproductive choice in America more seriously than I take literally anything else, and therefore own full responsibility for any words I speak that don't convey this truth clearly."
She also vowed to put her money where her mouth is: "You know how in some households you curse and have to put money in a jar?" she wrote. "Well in mine, if you mess up your pro-choice messaging you have to give a sizeable donation to abortion funds... in New York, Texas and Ohio."
It wasn't the first time Dunham has found herself apologising for a statement that many found offensive, tone-deaf and vaguely narcissistic. In September, she drew fierce criticism for sharing her assumption that New York Giants star Odell Beckham Jr. was judging her body when the two sat at the same table during the Met Ball. (She issued a lengthy apology on Instagram then, too, acknowledging that she "made totally narcissistic assumptions about what he was thinking, then presented those assumptions as facts.")
The Washington Post