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Let’s end this stupid ‘mum’ debate. Right now

Karl Stefanovic’s split with wife Cassandra Thorburn has reignited the stay-at-home versus working mum debate. It’s time to put an end to this damaging nonsense.

US Democratic presidential candidate Hillary Clinton speaks at a campaign rally, October 24, 2016 at Saint Anselm College in Manchester, New Hampshire. / AFP PHOTO / Robyn BECK

Over the hill? Far from it

Hillary Clinton, who turns 69 today, is redefining history, not just by smashing gender glass ceilings, but by reinventing what it means to be an almost-septuagenarian.

2011 Logies. Logie Awards. Red carpet arrivals. Karl Stefanovic with wife Cassandra Thorburn.

Hey ladies, wouldn’t it be great to have a wife?

There’s no question that running a family is bloody hard work. So it’s understandable that Cassandra Thorburn, Karl Stefanovic’s wife, wants to claim some credit for his success.

Is this the end of the theme park capital of Australia?

Even the death of one patron on a theme park ride would be difficult to overcome, but the deaths of four people — how could anyone have the confidence to go on a theme park ride again?

DO NOT REPUBLISH!! RENDEZVIEWONLY. Irish mother Anne Rigney and son Daragh on his wedding day. (Pic: Supplied)

Parents, stand up for your gay children

Australian parents, you have one role in life and that is to love your child unconditionally, writes Irish mother Anne Rigney. If your children are gay, it’s time to stand up.

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Casual racism is still racism. And it’s not OK

Among the renovation drama of The Block viewers were subjected to a contestant ridiculing Indigenous culture by wearing ‘tribal’ face paint. This lighthearted racism has to stop.

What to Expect When You're Expecting is a special Mother's Day screening at Events Castle Hill

Is FOMO a good enough reason to have a baby?

It may sound a bit silly and somewhat selfish — to have a baby just because all your closest friends are doing it — but a fear of missing out (FOMO) baby may not be the worst idea.

Hungry Jack's is trialling its Brekk-E-Tag technology at its Tumbi Umbi store.

Open your mouth to order before you stuff it with food

There is a line to be drawn in the pursuit of convenience and this is the place to draw it: Hungry Jack’s Brekk-E-Tag for drive-throughs. What a dumb idea.

Australia's Nick Kyrgios celebrates his victory over Belgium's David Goffin during the men's singles final at the ATP Japan Open tennis tournament in Tokyo on October 9, 2016. / AFP PHOTO / KAZUHIRO NOGI

Nick Kyrgios needs a hug. He’s obviously hurting

Nick Kyrgios’s behaviour has been poor but his problem is not that he’s rude or that he’s compromised the “integrity of tennis”. It’s that he’s not prepared to talk to someone.

A supplied image obtained Monday, Oct. 17, 2016 of Maria Lutz with children Elisa (left) and Martin (right), all found dead along with her husband Fernando Manrique in Davidson in Sydney's north. The bodies of a 44-year-old man, a 43-year-old woman, an 11-year-old girl and a 10-year-old boy, were found by police at a home on Sir Thomas Mitchell Drive in Davidson on Monday in response concerns for their welfare. (AAP Image/Facebook) NO ARCHIVING, EDITORIAL USE ONLY

This wasn’t a murder-suicide. It was cold-blooded murder

Killing yourself in the act of killing others does not make you virtuous. It makes you a coward, unwilling to face up to what you’ve done.

It’s not too late to say sorry, David Morrison

As former army chief David Morrison comes to the end of his turn as Australian of the Year, he has done little to stand out, writes Miranda Devine. A simple “sorry” would help.

generic knitting for Ku-ring-gai Council clubs

You should see me in the club... the knitting club

The first rule about knit club is, you must absolutely talk about knit club. The second rule of knit club is you don’t actually have to have any idea how to knit.

L-R: Melissa McCarthy and Kristen Bell in a scene from film The Boss

Should you be Facebook friends with your boss?

There’s nothing wrong with downing shots at 3am and singing karaoke badly at a dodgy bar. But it’s unlikely you want your boss knowing about it through your drunken Facebook posts.

28/07/1997 PIRATE: Mick Roelandts, manager NSW Firearms Reform Project with some of 95,000 guns surrendered in Sydney as result of Guns Buyback Scheme. NSW / Weapon

Tough gun laws work. We can’t go soft on them

Relaxing gun laws in Australia — for whatever political outcomes may be currently desirable — is a terrible idea. People’s fists are dangerous enough.

EMBARGOED FOR Wednesday October 19 Episodics for episode four of The Wrong Girl. Breakfast TV co-host Erica Jones (played by Madeleine West) has an emotional coming out on live television.

Madeleine West: ‘Keep your hurtful opinions in the closet’

Far too many people are forced to live half a life, writes The Wrong Girl’s Madeleine West. She hopes her character coming out as a lesbian will inspire positive discussion.

Refugee activists twist the truth. I know, I was there

No one is pretending Nauru is a five-star holiday resort for refugees, writes Caroline Marcus. But misleading the public is no way to engender sympathy for these people, either.

Gun owners are not the bad guys

The rights of licensed shooters have been hard won against constant opposition. Just because guns scare you doesn’t mean the rest of us should have to give them up.

Former Australian prime minister Tony Abbott delvers a personal explanation at the end of House of Representatives Question Time at Parliament House in Canberra, Thursday, Oct. 20, 2016. (AAP Image/Lukas Coch) NO ARCHIVING

Abbott’s lost cause to fix a failed legacy

Tony Abbott keeps trying to justify bad behaviour as preserving his “legacy”, writes Miranda Devine. But it is not up to Abbott to define his legacy. History will do that for him.

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Fast walkers may live longer. But they’re annoying

Research shows the slower you walk, the earlier you’ll cark it but fast walkers are the really annoying ones. If you know one, you’ll understand.

Supplied image obtained Tuesday, Oct. 11, 2016 of Gable Tostee and Warriena Wright inside his 14th floor Surfers Paradise apartment just hours before the New Zealand tourist plummeted to her death from the balcony on August 8, 2014. Gable Tostee is on trial in Brisbane Supreme Court after pleading not guilty to Ms Wright's murder. (AAP Image/Supplied by Queensland Supreme Court) NO ARCHIVING, EDITORIAL USE ONLY

Gable Tostee trial: Casual sex is not a crime

The Gable Tostee trial has drawn social censure around the willingness of a young couple to hook up on Tinder for a night of casual sex. That is not a crime.

Two friends sipping on a pineapple cocktail while enjoying the summer sun by the pool

I want to travel... without my partner

My partner and I differ over what constitutes a holiday. So I’ve planned a trip with one of my gal friends. But how do I tell my partner I want to travel without him?

Caucasian couple going on a road trip. Woman taking pictures with camera and man driving car.

Holiday happiness or highway to hell?

New research shows we’re jumping into our cars in record numbers to explore our own backyard. But is the humble road trip the route to holiday happiness or just a highway to hell?

Our carers deserve so much more. Especially respite

The tragedy that faced a young family juggling the complex needs of children with disabilities puts a spotlight on the needs of those who devote every moment of their lives to caring.

Hey, Human Rights Commission: What about the kids?

As the Human Rights Commission investigates cartoonist Bill Leak for ‘racial hatred’, indigenous kids wander the streets alone. That’s the real human rights shame.

Generic photo to illustrate breast exam for breast cancer. Picture: iStock

We’ve come a long way. But there’s much more to do

On Breast Cancer Awareness Day we recognise the achievements researchers have made to breast cancer survival rates. But we still have a long way to go.

Masculinity is not to blame for domestic violence

We must fight domestic violence by tackling behaviours and attitudes, not by fighting a war on gender identity. Otherwise we risk shaming men simply for being masculine.

Now showing: Shakespeare’s Australian politics

Australian politics is in the midst of a great tragedy whose proportions are as Shakespearean as its language is Mills & Boon. At every level it is confounding and contradictory.

DO NOT REPUBLISH!! RendezView ONLY!! Kimberlee Rutan McCafferty autism mummy-therapist and family. (Pic: Supplied)

Dear much younger me, I see you

A mother of two sons with autism, Kimberlee Rutan McCafferty, shares this moving letter to her younger self — when it all seemed too overwhelming to cope.

Keep your mortgage stress. I’ll take the smashed avo

If somebody told me brunch dates would have to be sacrificed to buy a home — I’d say take a walk. I’ll keep my “expensive” lifestyle over a mortgage any day.

Final Presidential Debate Between Hillary Clinton and Donald Trump

Why did it take so long to uncover Donald Trump’s abuse of women?

The number of women accusing Donald Trump of inappropriate touching has reached 16. How did a confessed predator this famous get away with this for decades?

If he’s chivalrous, he must be sexist, right? Wrong

“Chivalry is dead” came the battle cry when an AFL player shielded himself from rain and not his partner. Could it just be he didn’t cover her in fear of being labelled sexist?