The Detroit Emeralds

Why it is absolutely necessary for a woman to feel heard and understood by her man in order for her to feel safe and comfortable enough to relax into her feminine energy and to become interested in sex and intimacy. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer whose boyfriend is a big fan of my work and follows what I teach. She says they each have their own therapists and are working to overcome their individual issues, but that he often comes off as an uncaring cold fish who lacks empathy. She says that he trivializes her feelings and is very uncomfortable when she needs him to listen, communicate and make her feel heard and understood. She admits that she is insecure and sometimes comes off as being needy, but that they both adore each other. She asks my opinion on what she can do to facilitate better communication and so both of them can do a better job of meeting each other’s needs. “Men tend to naturally use logic and reason as their baseline form of communication. Women tend to naturally use emotions, relational stories, examples, feelings and sharing as their baseline form of communication. The average woman typically says about 8,000 words per day, whereas, the average man says about 2,000 words per day. Men often make the mistake of trying to use logic and reason to try and solve what they perceive as a woman’s problems, when all women really want is for men to listen, hear and understand them. A man would be much better off if he would ask his woman whether she is seeking his advice, or if she just wants him to listen instead of making assumptions. Women tend to solve their problems by the process of talking about them. Men tend to go to their man-cave to contemplate, reflect and then decide which course of action is best when they have a problem to solve. A woman would be much better off asking if her man simply needs time alone in his man-cave to contemplate, instead of assuming that he needs to talk and share what’s troubling him.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted;_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to book phone/Skype or email coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to get my Kindle eBook: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004QOBAPK/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp;=1789&creative;=390957&creativeASIN;=B004QOBAPK&linkCode;=as2&tag;=understand0d4-20 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne

• published: 27 Nov 2015
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