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People will start talking to you like they would a small child

Edit The Oklahoman 24 Jun 2016

A lot of people in the age that I'm in now grew up with a lot of “shoulds.” You “should” baby-sit your grandchildren every weekend. You “should” go to church every weekend. I think this is the age where we ought to put the “shoulds” aside, and we ought to pay attention to what we “want.” What pulls us? What draws us? What intrigues us? And not do what's “expected.” ... Because if we're doing what we “should” … “should” is a shame word....

Revelation 2: People will start talking to you like they would a small child

Edit The Oklahoman 24 Jun 2016

A lot of people in the age that I'm in now grew up with a lot of “shoulds.” You “should” baby-sit your grandchildren every weekend. You “should” go to church every weekend. I think this is the age where we ought to put the “shoulds” aside, and we ought to pay attention to what we “want.” What pulls us? What draws us? What intrigues us? And not do what's “expected.” ... Because if we're doing what we “should” … “should” is a shame word....

These 2 charts reveal why the traditional career arc may not make you successful

Edit Business Insider 23 Jun 2016

Mark Kolbe/Getty Images. If so much of what we call life is mostly created by our thoughts and beliefs, then much of what we take to be real - all the constructs, rules, and "shoulds" of the culturescape - is nothing more than an accidental tweak of history. For the most part, there's no rational basis to prove that what we're doing is the right way or the only way to do things. Much of what you think is true is all in your head ... ....

Am I a perfectionist? You asked Google – here’s the answer

Edit The Guardian 22 Jun 2016

If you’re asking this question, you’re probably also wondering if perfectionism can ever be a good thing. Perfectionists are those who strive for flawlessness, for a perfect creation, outcome or performance ... Pablo Picasso ... Whenever you hear yourself saying you “should” do something, take note. “Should” implies obligation ... Listen out instead for phrases like “I’d love to”, or find ways to turn the “shoulds” into something more enjoyable ... ....

Me and My Newborn - 10 Things I Did During the Newborn Days

Edit Huffington Post 26 May 2016

There were no shoulds, woulds or coulds clouding my days, the days just were; some were slow and some were fast, some were tearful and monotonous and others were simply the best of my life ... So here it is. ... The Mister and I decided that we should only have to agree with each other on how to parent; opinions, ticklists, charts and guidance was nice to have but we also readily discarded it when it didn't seem right for us and Bambina....

13 Common cognitive distortions

Edit The Examiner 15 May 2016

You think, "The traffic in LA is horrible and causes me road rage and the heat is just unbearable and it has been a month and I haven't even made a new friend yet, I should have never moved." ... 6) Shoulds...can irrationally be imposed on yourself or others and really have no place being imposed on anything. In counseling we often say, "Don't should on yourself!" Shoulds usually come with an existing, and irrational belief structure....

Why Is Panera Selling Us Dirty Lettuce?

Edit The Atlantic 07 May 2016

In this edition, the artifact at hand is a Panera Bread ad called “Should Be"—one of a series of spots the fast-casual bakery-cafe has put out this year ... Food should be good. People should dance. Strawberries should sing ... Lettuce should be dirty; dressing, clean. Sweet should never be fake ... Debate should be healthy ... Hands should be used regardless. Bellies should be rubbed; tables should be full. And good food should be good for you....

On the Red Couch with Writer/Designer Elle Luna (Flipboard Inc)

Edit Public Technologies 21 Apr 2016

Well, The Crossroads of Should and Must is really about how we make decisions ... Will you bring awareness to your decision-making? Will you bring thoughtfulness to whether you're choosing to live your life in 'should,' which is basically living your life for someone or something other than yourself, or will you choose 'must' and honor who you are and what you believe? ... create a list of your 'shoulds,' write it down, etc....

The 6 Essential Tax Tips – For Congress (US Chamber of Commerce)

Edit Public Technologies 13 Apr 2016

Around this time every year, the Internet starts to overflow with 'tax tip' columns chock-full of dos and don'ts, shoulds and shouldn'ts, advice for individuals, advice for families, advice for businesses, advice for just about every type of taxpayer ... Tax reform legislation should lower rates for all businesses ... Tax reform should reduce barriers to business investment by allowing full and immediate cost recovery....

Bring the Soul to Fruition

Edit Huffington Post 08 Apr 2016

Creative expression is essential for bringing the soul to fruition ... Trust what is unfolding ... This is an invitation to encounter the moment freshly without any preconceived notions of what it "should" be like. Beware the "shoulds" as they often indicate judgement and actually inhibit you from living. Pause when the "shoulds" appear and see what is true ... Notice when the phrase "I should" arises in your mind and feel how your body responds ... ....

Choosing Happiness

Edit Huffington Post 05 Apr 2016

Happiness -- such an elusive word with a variety of individual definitions ... Each conversation I have with advisors and trusted friends on the subject has left me with a variety of "shoulds" on how to be successful in this growth (and I know. take caution with "shoulds" as you can end up "should'ing" all over yourself...) Contemplating all this advice has left me overwhelmed with how much work was being suggested ... � ... 1 ... 2 ... 3 ... 4 ... 5 ... 6 ... 7 ... 8 ... 9 ... ....

Let's Let Our Partners Off the Hook

Edit Huffington Post 05 Apr 2016

I met my first husband when we were in our early 20s, and I thought he was a young god. But when we married, neither of us was prepared. His father had died when he was 4, and his mother when he was 12 -- and there were no strong role models for him for how to be a husband ... It means saying ... Making our partners responsible for taking care of our needs -- and building expectations that turn into shoulds, and then demands -- doesn't work ... ....

Maggie Alderson's The Rules: Go krazee sometimes

Edit Sydney Morning Herald 02 Apr 2016

I could quite happily serve up this column each week alternating pictures of Cate Blanchett and Helen Mirren ... Then I remembered I'd also wanted to write about this picture of the Goddess Blanchett, only to discover when I checked back that I last wrote about her just seven weeks ago… Well, too bad ... Advertisement ... To give up propriety, "shoulds" and "musts" and have some fun with your rig-out ... ....

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Should I Use Inherited IRA To Pay Off Student Loans?

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Should I Buy An F-Type SVR?

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Should I charge my phone overnight?

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