Attraction: Losing Power & Dominance
The subtle ways men lose or give away their power, attractiveness and dominance when dating and in relationships, and what you can do to avoid these common mistakes so you can grow and keep a woman’s attraction for you.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who shares what he has learned about the mistakes he made while dating a woman he really liked that led to his rejection after reading my book for the third time.
Things started off hot and heavy with her in the beginning and things often seemed too good to be true. She was aggressively all over him, calling him, wanting to see him, passionate sex, etc.
Without realizing what he was doing she simply opened the doors for him and all he had to do was walk through them. Then she started talking about how things were crazy at work and she was looking for a new job. Then her texts started tapering off and he went into over-pursuit mode to the
point that she finally blew him off. She reached out a month or so later, but he fumbled the football and did not set a date. A month after that he contacted her, they went out, had a great date and she was all over him again. She told him how much she had missed him and was glad to hear from him. Then she went completely cold over the next few days and started ignoring him again. He asks my opinion on her hot and cold behavior.
“When women you are dating start talking about how “crazy” things are in their lives or careers, or how “busy” and “hectic” things are, this is woman-speak for, “back off, I’m losing attraction for you, you are turning me off with your smothering behavior, I feel like
I am losing my freedom by dating you, things are moving too fast, you are acting needy and weak, this is starting to feel like a relationship and I am not feeling ready for a commitment or relationship yet, I’m going to back away from you, I’m not going to see you as much as I have been, I want to see you less,
I am going to be less available to you, I’m going to start disappearing and taking longer to respond to your texts and messages, I might start ignoring your texts and messages completely, etc.” When a woman you are dating starts using the, “busy, crazy, hectic, etc.,” buzz words, you need to immediately stop your pursuit, back off, practice infinite patience and wait to hear from her, or she will disappear from your life completely.” ~
Coach Corey
Wayne
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