Get Craig's help personally: http://www.askcraig.net/take-action/ Join the AskCraig mailing list: Enter your email Update on my video No Reply Since Then I appreciate your help, and also how direct and without sugar coating it you were, all you said is true, I'm a selfish and immature guy and will work on it and also work on my marriage situation. Yesterday I couldn't wait and sent the girl a text saying "hi, haven't heard from you, hope you're doing ok. Phone call?" And as expected no reply. I won't text anything else, I was just worried about her and her situation and just couldn't wait. Thanks for your help and will keep watching your videos. Woman in her early 20’s who said she was on and off with her ex for 3 years. He left me 4 weeks and 2 days ago. We both attend our community college. As a kid he did not receive the attention he should have. His parents were slightly abusive and he would compare himself to his “perfect” older sister whom they adored. He has a great relationship with them now. We spoke about moving in together, and agreed to a life together after we’ve completed schooling and obtained good jobs. The past few months of our relationship haven’t been great. He used to be clingy and I would push away, but the tables turned. I became the one to constantly called, texted, showed up to his house to talk, even in public when he was with friends. When we argued, we would go a week without communicating until I reached out. This happened maybe 4 times in the past few months. But when I reached out this time, he blatantly said: · I don’t want to be together anymore. · I’m not in love anymore · We’re not the same people we fell for · I’m thankful for the time we’ve got to share · We can say goodbye in person I was devastated. He wanted to hear what I had to say, but that was it. 3 days later, my anxiety was horrible and I called him to “say goodbye”. He came over, we went for a walk, caught up on life, laughed and then spoke about the situation. He said: · This is what’s best for us · I’m sorry for all of this · I want to be friends so you won’t have to deal with my “dark side” · Sometimes I just want to hold you close and tell you we’ll be ok I managed to convince him that we can work it out, and he just started kissing me. He then decided that this and I are what he wanted. I asked him if he wanted to go upstairs, and we did our thing. I felt horrible the next day cause I knew it was wrong. 2 days later we spoke again and he said: · It’s not fair to you if I don’t feel the same way you feel · I don’t want this to work out as bad as you · I don’t believe we’ll figure this out · I need my solitude · This too shall pass · When I find myself I’ll check up on you · I hope this isn’t the last of us · Can we have sex one last time? (we did) He held me as I cried, he knows I didn’t want this (I begged). He wasn’t crying as much as I was. He left around 2am and that was it. I implemented no contact as much as it hurt. It has been 4 weeks and 2 days since. Here’s what happened during: · 2 weeks in: I saw him walking near my house without his car omw home from work · Told a mutual friend he was happier “winging life” and he will commit to anyone “pure” · Went from never using social media to posting constantly. · Tweeted “will our history be found or will we find others?” · Posted a Snap of a keychain I got him when we were 15 (he never uses snapchat) · He’s been wearing my promise ring on a chain & posted at least 3 photos. (including as I am typing this) · EXACTLY 4 weeks after the split he calls me as soon as he’s out of work. I didn’t answer. Called back an hour later, his voice was gentle. Said: · Is it fair of me to call and see how you’re doing? · I’ve been worrying about how you’ve been feeling considering you were very upset · Asked me if I’d been attending parties/clubs (I replied “a little bit” – not the case) He grew very silent. Conversation was 10 mins long and I cut it short. I told him I was doing fine. My question is, what does this mean? Do I confront him on the fact that he’s obviously trying to get my attention online? Did I handle the phone call wrong? Do I reach out? Does he want me back or is he just screwing with me? Will he call again? How do I handle future conversations? How can I get him back? Thank you in advance. I tried to make this as short as possible. Love your videos so much. When I was with him I acted on emotion, ever since the breakup I haven’t done so.

• published: 21 May 2017
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