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What
Taiwanese Women Want In A
Boyfriend
Young Taiwanese women have a reputation for being ultra materialistic. This is evidenced by Taiwanese media and countless remarks in online forums and blogs. But that rumor doesn’t seem consistent with what I have observed. So I started asking around to do some fact checking.
When I asked Taiwanese guys what Taiwanese women want in a boyfriend, their response was a resounding,
“
Money, Car &
House!”
But when I talked to the women, a more distinct and complete picture began to emerge. This is what one friend said,
“I want a reliable guy who thinks about the future, who has a plan for the future. He doesn’t have to be rich, but he needs to be thinking about how he will take care of a family.”
In
Taiwan dating is viewed as a marriage partner selection process. It makes sense that if you approach dating as the first step toward marriage, you would be apt to date a guy who is “reliable”
and can “take care of a family.”
While some Taiwanese women may live up to the materialistic stereotype, it is important to note that gold diggers can be found in all cultures throughout the world.
Concluding that all or most Taiwanese women are materialistic is a oversimplification that dismisses many important cultural factors that are influential when choosing a marriage partner.
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What makes a Taiwanese girl what she is
Naturally, there are all sort of opinions around as to why Taiwanese girls behave as they do.
Perhaps it’s something to do with the quite unique culture of Taiwanese girls and their fairly rigid upbringing, plus the particular circumstances of Taiwan as a nation.
For those who don’t know, Taiwan is large island which sits off the coast of
Mainland China and, although a relatively small nation, is very influential in the region. For many years relations with the
Mainland, for historical reasons, were not good. In fact, it was only some 10-15 years ago that it was possible to travel directly to
China and Taiwanese girls or males looking to visit the maternal homeland had to go via
Hong Kong.
Many Taiwanese girls grew up in this period when China was far from the number two economy in the world and restrictions and limitations were common on social or other activities in China. This, in turn, spilled over to Taiwan and it wasn’t the late
1990s that relations finally thawed and an economic boom arrived on the
Island.
Taiwan gradually liberalised and the newly acquired freedom of expression laid ground for many Taiwanese girls to become active in the fields of music, arts, fashion and beauty. The next century into the
2000s continued with this transformation and, together with the Island’s democratisation, meant that Taiwanese girls became more visually socially, more independent and more demanding of relationships, yet still constrained by traditional family, societal and
Confucian values.
All in all, given this backdrop and mix, Taiwanese girls can, perhaps, be described as a “blend” of the women of several
Asian countries.
Still, Taiwanese girls have quite a reputation
Many Taiwanese girls seem to have garnered a reputation for being hard to please. Yet, just as when talking about any particular demographic within
Asia, or elsewhere for that matter, given that there are several million women in Taiwan it’s hard not to overly generalise about Taiwanese girls.
Still, depending on which article or blog post you are reading and, to be fair from whose viewpoint the piece is being written from, a number of key character traits reoccur when men are talking about Taiwanese girls; these include:
they can be highly materialistic, loving a man only for his money and in exchange for expensive gifts and lavish allowances
many of the younger generation of Taiwanese girls are self-centred, selfish and insecure others are obsessively shy in public and in intimate situations most Taiwanese girls are only concerned about buying clothes and accessories or looking good and don’t care how they get the money to do so for some Taiwanese girls, having a foreign boyfriend can almost become status
symbol, especially if he is perceived to be good looking… and rich, or relatively so!
Many such girls are slavish followers of soap operas, low grade TV talk shows and fashions and trends from
Korea and
Japan
and, finally, most Taiwanese girls are almost insanely jealous or behave particularly badly if/when a man breaks up with them
Phew, quite a list! There are more… but these are some of the often stated thoughts on Taiwanese girls—all from men I hasten to add!
Useful Articles:
Tips For Dating A Taiwanese
Lady By
Richard Nixon :
http://romanceguides.blogspot.tw/2009/10/tips-for-dating-taiwanese-lady
.html
https://youtu.be/yZCTwt9DP74
https://youtu.be/jbCUUh0Q2HQ
- published: 21 Jun 2016
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