NoLimitsradioTV.com welcome guest Dr.
Matthew Clark from
The Clark Institute to explore the dangers and trauma that closeted
LGBTQ face.
What is the best way for them to move forward for themselves and their family? (
Timecode: 01:07:15)
We also celebrate
David's birthday with surprise balloons!
1:45
Awkward handshake (inspired by
Ted Cruz -
Carly Fiorina)
2:55
Ticks,
Lyme Disease, embedded tick can cause paralysis in pets & children.
Woods
7:33
Disney employee video trying to catch alligator by visitors. Toddler recently killed by gator.
1:45
Video Kangaroo fighting it's own reflection.
Candice has friend with domesticated roo in
Australia. David's time in Australia. He held himself back because of his marriage. David's favorite things about traveling, falling in love. Then he broke their hearts.
20:23
Sex trafficking.
Amish girls gifted to
Pennsylvania child molester.
Arranged marriages.
Sex slave.
Missing children.
Jessica Heeringa
27:10
Scientology.
L. Ron Hubbard.
Tom Cruise personal assistant close friend of Candice cousin. Scientology people in labor & delivery room.
29:35 David's birthday balloon drop and singing
Happy Birthday! (without a shirt). David's mom forgot birthday in
3rd grade. David's girlfriend
Janet.
34:15 Candice's dating life.
34:50 David's surgery June 27. See June 13 show for more on his health issues.
36:44 Candice's memorable birthday McDonalds & 30th surprise tour of new house
38:08
Ghosts in Candice's house that shushed her crying baby. The dark energy David currently trying to get out of a
Holland house that's creating health issues.
43:20 Candice's 19th wedding anniversary to her gay husband. Why are they still married & in a
Mixed Orientation Marriage (
MOM)?
Health insurance.
Legal & medical decisions.
47:00 Candice dating. How is she approached? What works to get Candice interested?
51:33 David on mortality. His fear going into
14th surgery after last one resulted in coma. What he expects from this surgery.
Horror stories from when he was paralyzed in hospital after last surgery.
58:00 David's girlfriends new puppy keeping him awake & likes him better.
58:30 Candice planning
Gettysburg trip w family.
Haunted tours. Saw
Civil War soldier buried last time she was there.
Ghost stories from Gettysburg. David loves the ghost in his house who died almost
100 years ago, even though she hides his stuff, doesn't like his girlfriend, and causes problems.
1:07:15
Orlando Shooter was closeted gay.
The closet is a damaging place & has made previous tragedies worse. Dr. Matthew Clark, psychologist, on the show to talk about the damaging impacts of the LGBTQ closet.
1:25:00
The Bible:
Sodom and Gomorrah, rape not homosexuality.
Jimmy Carter statement.
1:27:00
Coming out. Planning for it. Finding support. Website by pastor detailing
Bible passages regarding homosexuality godmademegay.blogspot.com/p/letter-to-louise
.html
1:28:20 Being
LGBT NOT a choice.
1:30:29 Candice talks about her #LGBTQ grandmother and her #StraightSpouse grandfather, and all the closeted people in her family history.
1:32:40
Experience of the straight spouse for Candice's grandfather & his horrible marriage to closeted grandmother. Candice's gay husband.
1:34:55 As a therapist, Dr.
Clark has learned more about straight spouse experience & damage done by closeted spouse. Dr. Clark asks Candice's advice on bringing in more straight spouse understanding. Candice says there needs to be more of a family approach when someone comes out. What's healthiest way to move forward as a family that makes it best for everyone. Not allowing the LGBTQ spouse to mourn their past or feel guilt is actually more damaging to them.
1:39:30 Candice is LGBTQ contact for StraightSpouse.org. Important to think about the kids.
Focus on getting the kids through it. Her husband coming out was life changing event for the marriage, but life defining event for their children.
1:46:30 Coaching people in MOMs (Mixed Orientation Marriage). Coming out is traumatic for straight spouse, but there are ways to do it in a healthier way.
1:48:45
Parenting coming out is easier if the kids are younger. Schools required to allow Gay-Straight-Alliance if other groups are allowed in the school. Bullying goes down at school if there is support within. Candice's kids have middle school, high school kids with friends who are out. Candice's house is a safe place for kids who are LGBTQ.
1:53:00
Next steps in helping people coming out & moving forward.
Marriage Equality. Bathrooms.
Religious leaders seeing things more clearly, but are held back by the official teachings of their church.
Sharing media with positive LGBTQ messages & characters.
1:57:18 As a straight spouse, Candice tries to open door for closeted LGBTQ who need to talk. She also wants her kids to be happy & safe as they grow.
Advice Candice gives to closeted spouses coming out, dating, friendships, health, faith.
Domestic abuse in
LGBT community.
- published: 21 Jun 2016
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