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Students in public schools twice as likely to be bullied as private school pupils
Here are the reasons why up to 14 per cent of parents continue to choose private education over public schools across the country.
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When your child threatens to run away from home
While this case of Bondi run-away Michelle Levy ended happily, it has highlighted an issue that many parents find themselves facing: how do you respond when your child threatens to run away from home?
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What's the best way to raise your child?
What's the best way to raise your child? It's a question that has provoked the publication of numerous books, and seen authors race to coin the next quirky name for a new style of parenting.
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Why bedtime battles are worth the fight
I drag myself through those last couple of hours with my son, mindlessly making dinner, negotiating dessert and then putting on my battle armour to face the bedtime fight ahead.
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Dad as coach is causing behaviour problems with son
Our child is clearly feeling the pressure of being the coach's son, and he regularly acts out.
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It is a natural response parents make when wanting children to get ready to put down their devices but new research reveals it is making things worse.
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Pick your battles. For many of us, this expression takes on a whole new meaning when you become a parent.
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Giving my kids too much freedom
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Yes, you are! shouted some. No, you're not! cried others. Hundreds of comments later, the debate remains polarised.
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A recent widespread study of 160,000 children over 50 years has provided the definitive answer: smacking shouldn't be done anymore. Where does this leave the 80% of parents worldwide who smack their kids?
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The most comprehensive analysis of the research to date has revealed the detrimental effects of smacking on kids.
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Teenage girls traumatised by revenge-porn network aimed at 'teaching us a lesson'
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