Al Adab Al Mufrad - Lesson 04 By Abu Suhaib
Lesson 4
The below were covered in this lesson.
Chapter 18:
Offering Islam To A
Christian Mother
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No 34.
Abu Hurayra said: "There is no one, be he a Jew or Christian who would not love me on hearing of me. I wanted my mother to become a Muslim, but she refused. I told her about it and she still refused. I went to the
Prophet (
SAW) and said, 'Make supplication to
Allah for her.' He did so I went to her. She was behind the closed door; she said, 'Abu Hurayra, I have become Muslim.' I informed the Prophet (SAW) and said, 'Make supplication to Allah for me and my mother.' He said, 'O Allah, make people love your servant, Abu Hurayra and his mother.'"
Chapter 19: Dutifulness Towards
Parents after Their
Death
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No 37. (
ATH 13)
Muhammad b.
Sirin said, "We were with Abu Hurayra one night and he said, 'O Allah, forgive Abu Hurayra and his mother and whoever asks for forgiveness for both of them.'" Muhammad b. Sirin said, "We ask forgiveness for them so that we may be included in the supplication of Abu Hurayra."
No 38. Abu Hurayra said: "
The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, 'When a person dies, all his actions come to an end with the exception of three things: a Sadaqa
Jaria (a charity witch continues to benefit), knowledge that benefits, or a righteous child who makes supplication for them.'"
Chapter 20: Charitable
Acts Towards Whom One's
Father Was Charitable
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No 41. (ATH 14)
Ibn 'Umar said: "The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said, 'The best form of dutifulness is that one maintains relations with the people one's father loved.'"
Chapter 23: A Man Should Not
Call His Father By His
Name Nor
Sit Down Before He
Does Nor
Walk Ahead Of Him
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No 44. (ATH 15) Abu Hurayra, seeing two men said to one of them, "
Who is this man in relation to you?" He said, "He is my father." Abu Hurayra said, "
Do not call him by his name nor walk ahead of him nor sit down before he does."
Chapter 24: Can a Man Call His Father By His Kunya?
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No. 46 (ATH 17) Ibn 'Umar said, "But
Abu Hafs 'Umar decided
..." (using his father's kunya to talk to him).
Chapter 25: The
Duty Of Maintaining Ties Of
Kinship
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No 48. Abu Hurayra said: "When the following verse was revealed 'Warn your nearest relatives' (26:
214), the Prophet (SAW) rose and called out, '
Banu Ka'b b. Lu'ayy!
Save yourselves from the
Fire! Banu
Abd Manaf! Save yourselves from the Fire!
Banu Hashim! Save yourselves from the Fire! Banu '
Abdul Muttalib! Save yourselves from the Fire! Faatimah daughter of Muhammad! Save yourself from the Fire! I cannot alter Allah's decision about you (if you deserve it).
Except for the fact that you have ties of kinship which I shall maintain.'"
Chapter 27: The
Excellence Of Maintaining
Family Ties
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No 52. Abu Hurayra said: "
A man came to the Prophet (SAW) and said, '
Messenger of Allah, I have relatives with whom I maintain connections while they cut me off.
I am good to them while they are bad to me. They behave towards me like fools while I am forbearing towards them.'
The Prophet said, ' If things are as you have said, it is as if you were putting hot ashes on them* and you will not lack a supporter against them from Allah as long as you continue to do that.'"
*I.e., it will cause them harm if they continue with their behavior but will not harm you as it will result in their humiliation and you gain respect in this world and the
Hereafter.