So many of my notifications on all forms of social media this morning are talking about this woman:
Rachel Dolezal, head of an NAACP chapter in Spokane, Washington, has been posing as a Black woman for years and her whitewhitewhite parents put her on Front Street yesterday.
The first thing I did when I saw the notifications was open up some links to read about what happened and on every single article, this showed up:
Over and over and over again
Those comments are from Buzzfeed, but they’re everywhere, and largely being made by cisgender white people. The opinion I really want is from a Black trans person, not Becky from North Platte, Nebraska who has no frame of reference for either of those groups.
Until Janet Mock or Laverne Cox gives me something to work with, I want to attempt to explain that while race and gender are both social constructs, they don’t occupy the same space with regard to perception or flexibility.
trying to prove something to my mum
I looked inside my self
and saw nothing;
and I despaired.
I looked inside myself again
and saw Infinity
and I wondered.
Anything Real, set against Infinity
is as close to Nothing
as makes no difference;
yet it is still Real
like a candle flame
in noonday sun.