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Equality is far away with friends like Malcolm Turnbull

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We thought the new Prime Minister would be a true friend to gay Australia. Now he seems more frenemy than friend.

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Safe Schools debate: PM calls for 'measured language'

Participants should 'consider the impact of their words on young people' says Prime Minister Malcolm Turnbull. Vision ABC News 24.

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The voters of Sydney's gayest suburb, Darlinghurst, have deserted the Prime Minister. Those of Potts Point have gone too.

Their departure may have been involuntary, the result of a redistribution, but is prescient. Malcolm Turnbull is proving deflatingly disappointing to many who support him, and many gay people in particular, even if the polls still have him comfortably the preferred PM.

Illustration: Michael Mucci

Illustration: Michael Mucci

We knew Tony Abbott would be a disaster for equality, and he was. But Turnbull?

We thought him better than merely the welcoming face of the Liberal Party. We thought him the harbinger of change on the remaining legal inequities facing gay Australians. We thought the smartest man in Parliament House would be a true friend to gay Australia. He even went to Mardi Gras last year, in a pink shirt.

We hoped his support for marriage equality, detailed in his compelling 2012 lecture, would see it quickly passed, then he yielded on Tony Abbott's moronic $160 million plebiscite to get to The Lodge.

But incomprehensibly, he has lent his support to the review of a voluntary school program to reduce homophobic bullying and self-harm among LGBT teens.

What is the point of a gay-friendly prime minister if he can't slap down those keen on perpetuating teenage hate, angst and suicide? What is the point of an ally if it's an alliance in photo-op only?

Discouraging kids from beating up others for being different is surely the low-hanging fruit of tolerance. After him not picking it last week, Turnbull seems more frenemy than friend.

We've been here before. Julia Gillard blocked marriage equality, despite her own non-traditional take on the institution. Once out of power, she changed her tune.

Kevin Rudd, from whom the United Nations must be saved, opposed marriage equality when he could've passed it in his first spell as PM, and supported it only when he couldn't, in his second.

If the political consequences of scrapping the plebiscite were too hefty for Turnbull, at least he could have properly called out Queensland MP George Christensen's odious comparison of an effective anti-bullying program to grooming by paedophiles. He could have blocked the determination of the hateful right to destroy it.

But he didn't. He caved, and told everyone to use nicer language.

This comes at a time when a queue of prominent straight men complain the voices of those against marriage equality are silenced.

ABC political editor Chris Uhlmann termed it "offending the new ruling hegemony", declaring that he would stand with the right of the minority to disagree with changing marriage laws. Former ABC chairman Maurice Newman complained about much the same thing.

On Saturday, we read that John Howard feels this same pain of oppressed speech, a view so oppressed it was on the front page of The Australian. "There is nothing homophobic about supporting traditional marriage," he told the nation, after beating overwhelming odds to have his voice heard. "Everybody did in the Parliament in 2004."

Which is true, if "everyone" means "not everyone". When the Senate excluded same-sex couples, the vote was 38-6. Most agreed to enshrine discrimination with Howard's law, but not all.

He continued: "You ought to be able to have sensible discussion on these sorts of things," suggesting we are not having one, and as long as Cory Bernardi is involved in it, I suppose he's right.

"And you should be able to express a view on these things," he said, despite months of evidence from the likes of Bernardi proving many people are managing it just fine.

"But there is a sense in which people are so frightened of being accused of being discriminatory or intolerant that they don't speak the common­sense view."

Howard is talented at appropriating language: after years of being considered slippery with the truth, he called and won an election he declared to be about trust. Now, he seeks to take "commonsense" for opponents of marriage equality, despite their view being neither very common nor containing much sense.

The free speech argument Howard adopts is a straw man, a distraction. It's the last resort of those losing an argument. We have no reason, few facts, but we demand the right to be heard!

The rights of the straights-only marriage crowd are under no threat. Their freedoms are not curtailed; they forget that it is those of same-sex couples that remain legally constrained.

These supposedly cowed opponents of equality cry oppression yet receive more attention than anyone else. Minority views get more attention than those with majority support, a reality that Andrew Bolt and his ilk trade on. The opinion pages of conservative media rely on contrarians to build readership, and anti-equality advocates are primary beneficiaries.

Oblivious to this contradiction, they routinely cite as conclusive evidence one silly complaint to Tasmania's anti-discrimination commissioner about the Catholic Church's Don't Mess With Marriage booklet (which introduced to school children the term "throuple").

Yet as stupid as that unresolved complaint is – and stupid, it is – the effect has hardly been to silence critics of equality.

Howard was on the front page. The Australian Christian Lobby is quoted ad nauseam. Bernardi and Christiansen know they are guaranteed a national run each time they say something about it.

Speaking of which, the next time you hear Bernardi accuse equality advocates of "social engineering", remember he is attempting to engineer a society without gay weddings and apparently with bullied gay teens.

Tim Dick is a Sydney lawyer.

Twitter: @dick_tim

135 comments

  • Desperation: that's what I see, that's what I hear.
    There aren't going to be any new revelations or winning arguments.
    People have made up thier minds and its just a matter of time.
    The desperation will grow to shrill level.. Sad really.

    Commenter
    Cranky Bilby
    Date and time
    February 28, 2016, 6:48PM
    • I would say that this article is desperate. Desperate to quell any discussion on the subject of Gay Marriage. It purveys the concept that there is no real argument not to have Gay Marriage, and therefore parliament should rubber stamp it without consideration.

      Well, there will be a public discussions held on the matter in the coming plebiscite.
      Then, we won't have a media supported one-sided debate.

      Desperate to avoid a debate heh? Why wouldn't you want all Australians to endorse SSM via a plebiscite? Or make provisions for it in our constitution via a referendum.

      The SSM lobby says it has the numbers (Support from Voters) so why the desperation and fear of having a Govt. Endorsed debate?

      Commenter
      Kingstondude
      Location
      Melbourne
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 8:57AM
    • To label Malcolm Turnbull as "the smartest man in Parliament" is to confuse ambition with ability. Mark Dreyfuss is one of many in Parliament who are more deserving of the sobriquet "the smartest man in Parliament" than our PM.

      Commenter
      zenn
      Location
      KL
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 9:56AM
    • Kingstonedude, you ask this same question in the same passive aggressive way time and time again, without ever having the grace to at least respond to or acknowledge the answer. That behaviour in itself partially answers the question, ie that anything that is said by us (lesbians and gays) is derided, ignored, taken out of context or outright dismissed.

      But in the interests of having a debate, I will try one more time. The main reasons I do not want a plebiscite (and in particular this "debate") are:

      1. We can see just from the "debate" about the Safe Schools program that the opponents of marriage equality behave by make false claims (see for example George Christensen's lies about what is included in the Safe Schools program and his refusal to acknowledge he got it wrong)
      2. The opponents of marriage equality use inflammatory, divisive and emotive language about gays and lesbians, attempting creating associations in people minds between LGBTI people and depraved acts such as bestiality and paedophilia.
      3. The most vulnerable LGBTI people (the young and people with trauma backgrounds for example) will be greatly harmed by hearing such malicious and false allegations

      On the substantive issue of marriage equality, my reasons for not wanting a plebiscite are:

      1. Marriage is a secular and civil right and responsibility, created by an act of Parliament, in exactly the same way for example we have a range of laws to regulate relationships, finances, property etc. As citizens we should all be subject to the same laws.
      2. Vulnerable or minority groups should not have their rights as citizens decided by the majority. Decency and precedent require that they are determined by principles of equality of access.

      I look forward to your acknowledgement of my response to your question.

      Commenter
      Florence
      Location
      Sydney
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 10:11AM
    • @Kingstondude: Even John Howard thinks the plebiscite is a bad idea. It undermines representative democracy, and abrogates the responsibility of Parliament to legislate on our behalf.

      Commenter
      Jace
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 10:31AM
    • @ Florence,

      George Christensen and Corey Bernadi have not lied at all about the safe schools australia coalition program.

      See what Cella White from Victoria and Karalee Katsambanis from Western Australia have said and it aligns with what everyone is saying, except the defenders of SSM who will defend the indefensible by what ever means.

      The legalisation of SSM is a radical social policy change, which has led to increased persecutions and prosecutions overseas for not "celebrating gay marriage" in particular against christians. Given that according to tje last census about 65% of Australians identified as christians and this doesn't include jews, muslims and secular people opposed to SSM. It will effect a lot of people!

      The Australian people have a right to decide and for only $6 per person it is a small price to pay to shut this issue down.

      Commenter
      Jack
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 11:22AM
    • The usual desperate and exaggerated comments along the the same hackneyed disproved lines. "The rights of the straights-only marriage crowd are under no threat. Their freedoms are not curtailed; they forget that it is those of same-sex couples that remain legally constrained."
      What do you elect MP's for if not but to make decisions...except when you are so scared of the decisions they may make. There is no no moral substantiation for your position, you have no logical or ethical argument that holds any weight. The same wild accusations about "everyone" are thrown around loosely that it makes your words sound so hollow. You preach a strange perception of democracy that seemingly only applies to those who meet with your approval.
      You are afraid of difference, afraid of change, afraid of diversity and afraid of the upcoming decision. OK, lets waste a few hundred million dollars to satisfy your fears but don't start telling us about waste on other issues as many of you are prone to do.

      Commenter
      Dr Reg
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 2:09PM
    • @Florence. To answer your questions.
      1. Safe Schools program. Not every parent wants their under 17yo children subjected to the materials presented in this program. It deliberately overstates or inflates the number or percentage of LBGTI young people. It seems more than just an anti-bullying program.

      2. The supporters of marriage equality use inflammatory, divisive and emotive language also, if not more.

      So you don't want a plebiscite, yet you provide a redefinition of "Marriage". You expect its acceptance with no debate.

      A government system where minorities make the laws for themselves is not democracy. Australia is a democracy.

      Commenter
      Kingstondude
      Location
      Melbourne
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 3:26PM
    • Thanks Kingstondude, I appreciate the reply, I do not believe we will make any headway in this debate without engaging in a conversation (rather than hurling rocks from behind high walls).

      To your points, yes I agree that not every parent agrees with the Safe Schools Program, perhaps because they don't see the need, or perhaps from a genuinely held belief about human sexuality or any number of reasons really. And certainl;y it is open to them to have that discussion at their child's school. My point was though that there was no need for George Christensen to liken it to paedophiles grooming children. How does that help the debate at all?

      On the second point, I don't think you can top the efforts of Chris Miles today in terms of saying inflammatory, divisive and just plain malicious falsehoods. I'm sure you've seen the article. I am not aware of any marriage equality organisation that has put any material out like that. I agree however that name calling is not helpful and I am very careful with my language as I note others on these pages are. I agree that you should call it out when you see it, but please don't make the same mistake and accuse every marriage equality advocate of name calling.

      Lastly, I don;'t think I have re-defined marriage? All I have done is identify it as a piece of legislation, not dissimilar to other pieces of legislation that regulate human relationships in society.

      I hope the moderator sees fit to publish this, as I would be mortified if you were left with the impression that I did not respond to you courteously.

      Commenter
      Florence
      Location
      Sydney
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 5:02PM
    • Kingstondude, you're right, not every parent wants their child to know the things presented by the Safe Schools program. Not every parent wants their child to learn about evolution as well, some don't even think they should learn the ordinary sex-ed. Too bad for those parents. This program is targeted at raising awareness about these issues to lessen bullying. If parents were doing their jobs and teaching their children about these issues and not to bully then there would be no need for this program, but there is. Anti-gay bullying is rampant in schools, and Bernardi and Christensen want this program gone but offer nothing to take its place.

      And you would be wrong that the minority of Australia are trying to make laws for themselves. The majority of Australia, some 70%, want same-sex marriage. And we can do it in a democratic way without a plebiscite. We have a representative democracy for a reason. Let's use it and avoid a debate that could be harmful to gay teens who are already more likely to attempt suicide. Why should we be spending an extra $160 million so that the government can avoid doing their jobs?

      Commenter
      Hush
      Location
      Wollongong
      Date and time
      February 29, 2016, 5:28PM

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