I Can't Wait To See You!

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• published: 19 Aug 2015
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The importance of being charming, sweet, loving and saying things like, “I love you! I can’t wait to see you! I miss you! Etc.,” and how not handling or reciprocating these phrases or emotions to your girlfriend or wife can make them slowly lose attraction for you over time, think that you don’t care about them, and cause you to come off as too much of a cold fish which will lead to you getting dumped eventually. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who got dumped by his first real girlfriend after things started off so easy and effortless. They never fought when they were together and dated for about six months. She even approached him first. Everything in their relationship was awesome… at first. They did have serious discussions about things they were not happy with in their relationship without arguing. He started parroting the, “I love you’s.” back to her at first, but he was unsure of what they meant. He was raised in a military family and not used to hearing or saying those things. He started to back off during the summer break from college when they were apart. He went to see her and she asked him if he loved her. His response was less than stellar. She broke up with him. He wants to know what to do, how he should act and how he should interact with her when they are back at school in a few weeks and since they will see each other all the time. He already told her he was not interested in being friends only. “Women want to be in a love story. It’s a turn off to a woman when a man is too mushy, talks about his feelings too much and acts like her boyfriend before she has even gotten to know him well enough for her feelings to develop slowly over time. It’s also a turn off to a woman when a man is not mushy enough, hardly ever talks about his feelings for her and does not make her feel special after they have been together for a while. A good rule of thumb for a man to follow is to slowly match and mirror a woman’s emotional, verbal and physical intensity, and to slowly back off when he notices her becoming bored, losing enthusiasm or pulling away. Why? Women are like cats. Sometimes they are really affectionate and want to be close, and sometimes they simply like to wander away and be apart. Men who understand this principle are indifferent and not diminished, but ready to shower their women with praise, respect, affection, love and romance when they predictably come back. Men must learn to find a happy medium and balance between being too dopey and being too much of a cold fish; both extremes will lead to certain rejection.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted;_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to book phone/Skype or email coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to get my Kindle eBook: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004QOBAPK/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp;=1789&creative;=390957&creativeASIN;=B004QOBAPK&linkCode;=as2&tag;=understand0d4-20 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne