How to get unstuck and out of a rut if you feel like your life is going nowhere, you have nobody to love you, it feels like your life is over, hopeless and like you will never be able to accomplish your goals and dreams. In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a viewer who broke up with his ex two years ago and when he tried to get her back recently, he made the stupid mistake of drunk texting her and trying to make her jealous by lying and saying that he and his friends had several prostitutes over. Obviously, that went over like a lead balloon, and she cancelled her plans to come see him saying that she had a new boyfriend, was very happy and started posting all kinds of fun pictures of her and her new boyfriend having a great time together. When he broke up with his ex two years ago, he started trying to build a non-profit charity that he says has been a horrible failure since he started. He’s thirty-nine and feels like his life is going nowhere. He’s in an extremely un-resourceful state of mind, and he says he can’t see anything good ever happening again in his life. “The best thing you can do when you feel like you are stuck in a rut, you’re not making any progress towards accomplishing your dreams and goals, and life feels hopeless and like it will never get any better, is to put your head down and start taking action towards what you want. Why? When you are not taking any action and are standing still, this will cause you to experience fear and doubt. When you start taking action, you’ll bring yourself back into the present moment, which is the only moment that exists, and this will cause you to feel confident and have the courage to continue moving forward. Most big goals and dreams often take a decade or more to accomplish and are the result of breaking big goals and tasks, down into small daily activities and small goals that can be completed before the end of each day. When you become focused on instant gratification and become impatient, you make it impossible to focus on what you need to do right now and how you need to continue to refine, adapt and modify your approach in order to eventually achieve your goals and dreams slowly over time. Everything worth having in life and that which you will most highly value always will take more time, effort and money than you think it will.” ~ Coach Corey Wayne Click the link below to make a donation via PayPal to support my work: https://www.paypal.com/cgi-bin/webscr?cmd=_s-xclick&hosted;_button_id=LKGTSSLYJ93J6 Click the link below to book phone/Skype or email coaching with me personally: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/products Click the link below to get my Kindle eBook: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B004QOBAPK/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&camp;=1789&creative;=390957&creativeASIN;=B004QOBAPK&linkCode;=as2&tag;=understand0d4-20 Click the link below to read my FREE self-help articles: http://www.understandingrelationships.com/ From my heart to yours, Corey Wayne

• published: 26 Mar 2015
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