this is from my personal study of love and i thought i should share it learn more at "http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence" [ Limerence is a state of mind is sometimes refard to being in love a distinct from loving some1 and is somtimes call in infatuation however the trem infatuation carries connotations of immaturity that Limerence seperates from the emotion. lim-er-ent is the subjective noun for the limerent person as well is tha adjative form. so the Limerence object is tha person the Limerent desierse.the coinages are arbitrary there is no specific antimogly the word is not found in current dictionaries but never the less used by psychologist and others discussing romantic relationships. Limerence is distinct from love in that love in most of it meannings involves concern for the loved ones wellfare feelings with little or no exception of reciprocation of gain in return. in contrest Limerence demands reciprocation also in distinction from love Limerence tends to be shorty lived one and a haft years at most but typically lives only a few months. perhaps restocanion acurs and limerance occurs and limerance is replaced by other feelings possibly lasting love. evidence of limerance does not reciprocate overwelms the limerance passion or the limerance is transford to a new object. the primary characteristics limerance can be summarized as intuitive perhaps obsessive thinking about the limerent object and acute longing for reciprocation clinically this state is marked by a decreace of serotonin neurotransmitter. witch leads a decreace of emotional senitvty and instability. people can sometimes become very ilogical and almost insane in particular the desire for resipocanion can produce ilogical beleives "she only had me put in jail becuse my love is to stoung for her to stand" and behaviour "if i cut off my ear she will see how much i love her" Limerence often feel real Physicaloglical affects incuding a Physical pain in the chest heartache when reciprocation seems unlikey and Euphoria when reciprocation seems evident. if the limerent object does not reciprocate and does not handle the situlation with care people in this state can suffer saver depersion somtimes killing them selfs unrequied love is one main cuss of suicde in the younger generation. ]

• published: 10 Oct 2010
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