How to successfully negotiate from a superior position of strength so you can get the personal and professional terms you want for your life and relationships, and to create the lifetime habit of winning at all you endeavor to accomplish and achieve.
In this video coaching newsletter, I discuss an email from a female viewer who met a guy six months ago. He had a girlfriend at the time they first met and was therefore unavailable.
Two weeks ago they ran into each other at a conference.
Apparently he was newly single and hitting on her. The conference lasted five days, they were inseparable the entire time and they hooked up on the last night. After the conference he contacted her for another date.
At the end of the night he told her that he could not have sex with her anymore because he was not looking for a relationship, and he did not want her to get attached or have expectations of a relationship. He says he wanted to continue seeing her, but in a platonic way. She told him she was not interested in that, but for him to get in touch with her in the future once he figured himself out. He said he would think about it and let her know when things changed. She asks my opinion and what I think.
“You should think of life as a lifelong, constant & never-ending process of successful negotiation to create and maintain the life and lifestyle you’ve always wanted.
It’s like a
Bazar of life with endless streams of people and circumstances trying to sell you on why you should do what they want you to do, or you selling them on why they should do what you want them to do.
Sometimes, a deal can’t always be made.
Great deals are made with the win/win or no deal philosophy. When terms are not to your liking, do not settle.
Walk away and never look back, and continue seeking and searching for what you want.
Success only releases its reward long after you thought it would have, and after pretty much everyone else has long since given up. Doing things that are difficult take a long time to accomplish, while things that seem impossible usually just take a little while longer.” ~
Coach Corey
Wayne
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- published: 22 Feb 2016
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