Empathy-The Key To Healing From Emotional Abuse-The Transformational Emotion

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www.lisaaromano.com Please take the survey https://goo.gl/iE9L2V ALL children need to feel 'seen' on an innate level by the time they are three years old. Without this sense of feeling psychologically seen, children are unable to integrate their emotions, and fail to then realize and appreciate their emotional selves. When this happens, children are reduced to animal existences. We are brainwashed to disown what we feel--deny and suppress what we feel--and then feel guilty, wrong and or ashamed when we find ourselves in moments where it is impossible NOT to feel something. Empathy is the key emotion we as human beings need to be learning about--and understanding in a deep sense, so that we can more deeply connect to Self--our children, spouses, friends, and others. It is important to remember however, that the first person you MUST create empathy for is the Self. Once you have honored the Self, you are in a position to be able to be able to empathize with others while also being able to NOT enmesh with others. Holding onto yourself is crucial dear ones. Thank you to our earths angel out there in the UK who is so lovingly, and generously learning to tap into being more empathetic and emotionally present to her psychiatric clients, who are needing to be heard, seen and understood! In love and in light dear sister of the LIGHT! If you believe you suffer from codependency issues, narcissistic abuse, and or have been raised by narcissistic parents this channel is for you. Whether you come from a dry home (non alcoholic-emotionally-verbally-psychologically-physically-sexually abusive home) or an alcoholic/drug addicted home, you may suffer from codependency programming. I believe codependency personality disorder--is real, and it is the result of being raised to believe you are unworthy. When you are raised to believe you are unworthy, every thought that passes through the filter in your mind--is tainted by that thought which eventually becomes a belief. I am not a licensed psychologist--and I am glad I am not. I am glad I am not because I am not certain my own opinions would not have been indoctrinated OUT OF ME. The fact that we live in a society--and exist under this umbrella called 'Psychology'--and most of us when we enter into therapy are not asked about 'how we felt about our parents--or how we felt our parents felt about us' growing up is a huge problem! In addition, we are a world FULL of adult children of alcoholics--self absorbed--codependent parents--and yet--we are routinely treated for the way we feel, rather than addressing WHY we feel the way we feel. What will help us all, is when we learn about how our childhood--and our brainwave states impacted our impressionable subconscious minds. Why? Because what you learned about your Self between the ages of 0-8 has become your psychological set point; how you see your Self and the world. Why? Because children are hypnotic brainwave states during this time of their life. If you were not loved unconditionally--you have been downloaded to believe you are not worthy of love. For the rest of your life, you may seek outside validation to fill that void--AND in the process attract narcissists who NEED to be sought after--taken care of--and praised. It is my hope that this channel opens your eyes to the divine YOU that lays in waiting--until you wake up and realize--its not you--its your programming. (copyright Lisa A. Romano 2015) Lisa A. Romano is a Breakthrough Life Coach who specializes in helping people heal their childhood programming. If you have been raised by alcoholics, narcissists, or if you are struggling with codependency, and have been attracting narcissists into your life these videos will help you unravel the dysfunctional beliefs that are holding you back. This channel speaks to those interested in "codependent counseling", "codependent therapists", "codependent no more", question "What is codependency?", "narcissistic abuse survivors", "codependency issues", and "codependent recovery". If you are interested in reading Lisa's books they are; The Road Back To Me My Road Beyond The Codependent Divorce Loving The Self Affirmations-Healing Unconscious Codependent Belief Systems Quantum Tools To Help You Heal Your Life Now Loving The Self Affirmations-Healing Childhood Brainwashing For professional inquires; http://www.lisaaromano.com Free Worksheets when you join our newsletter at http://www.lisaaromano.com To subscribe and listen to "Lisa A. Romano's Blogtalk Radio Show" http://www.blogtalkradio.com/lisa-a-romano Lisa A. Romano on Pinterest http://www.pinterest.com/lisaaromano/self-help-for-adult-children-of-alcoholics-life-co/?z=1 Lisa A. Romano's Amazon Authors Page http://www.amazon.com/Lisa-A-Romano/e/B007VHQGTE Visit Website Store for downloads, meditations and workshops.