Tobias: “Prostitution is Dehumanizing” — That’s Why He Only Gets “Massages”?

Darby Hickey, of Free Speech Radio News, files this report (direct download, .mp3) on PEPFAR, the President’s Emergency Plan for AIDS Relief, a $15 billion dollar program for international HIV/AIDS prevention, treatment and care. Here you can listen to the words of former client of Ms. Palfrey’s escort service, Randall Tobias, who administered the program until one week ago today, on how prostitution is “fundamentally harmful and… dehumanizing.”

With Tobias out, and PEPFAR up for reauthorization next year, we all ought to keep an eye on this:

Next year’s funding for the program is being appropriated in the coming months and re-authorization is pending in 2008. Recognized as a significant contribution to the fight against HIV/AIDS, the plan, PEPFAR for short, also came with many restrictions on how the funding could be spent. Research shows those ideology-driven restrictions are undermining the goals of the plan, says Jodi Jacobson, Executive Director of the Center for Health and Gender Equity, which maintains the website PEPFARWatch.org.

News Brief From Carol Leigh & Robyn Few, of BAYSWAN & SWOP

Hypocrisy exposed! Leader of Bush Administration agency that condemns prostitution caught in prostitution scandal

The whore blogs and sex worker email lists are abuzz with latest Republican scandal. Escorts and masseuses banter smugly, debating the ethics of outing clients as a decriminalization strategy.

According to the ‘Brian Ross and Justin Rood Report’ on abc.com, “Deputy Secretary of State Randall L. Tobias submitted his resignation Friday, one day after confirming to ABC News that he had been a customer of a Washington, D.C. escort service whose owner has been charged by federal prosecutors with running a prostitution operation.”

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Where are the ‘Feminists’?

A woman is being publicly bullied, insulted and robbed of both her possessions and her dignity. I guess the National Organization for Women haven’t been watching the news for a couple of months.

In their May 1st bi-weekly newsletter, sent out with Kim Gandy’s Below the Belt column, there was absolutely no mention of Deborah Jeane Palfrey, her case, nor the blatant misogyny illustrated by the latest high-profile sex scandal.

While NOW president Kim Gandy did touch on an equally important issue with her critique of the recent Supreme Court ruling that imposes new abortion restrictions, NOW and other women’s advocacy groups are still failing to recognize the indivisible link between prohibiting a woman’s right to engage in consensual sex and limiting a woman’s right to access safe and legal abortions and birth control.

Gandy characterizes Gonzalez v. Carhart as: “…insulting paternalism and a profound distrust of this country’s women, families, and medical professionals.” Exactly the same can be said of the laws that prohibit prostitution and the various policies associated with the enforcement of such laws, including foreign policies that endanger the health and safety of women around the globe in the name of morality.

It’s not just NOW who have missed the boat on this one. While several feminist sites have posted articles off of the wire, there’s little commentary or critique if the situation within the feminist arena. Those who have commented have been quick to respond to Tobias’ unusual comment about his current use of a service that employs “Central Americans,” and the uber-misogynist statement about not being able to remember any of the girls that he saw because ordering an escort is “like ordering a pizza.” Naturally, I’d expect feminists to address these statements, but they’re really missing the forest for the trees by viewing this through the lens that commercial sex is inherently bad for women.

Feminists in the UK managed to at least explore a question that hints upon recognition of the human element of the women working in the biz:

“What’s significant about this story, as it was with the Ipswich murders, is the reference to the women involved as prostitutes or call-girls, rather than as women. Does the use of a distinct nomenclature to define the selling of one’s body for sex somehow lessen the significance of female exploitation and use by men? No, it doesn’t, and the media should begin to demonstrate this through their reporting.”

It’s unfortunate that feminists continue to run in circles around this jaundiced platform that a pre-negotiated agreement for sex automatically signals ‘exploitation.’ Feminists don’t seem to be concerned about the exploitation that occurs when women lose their jobs based on their sexual history.

Even more infuriating is that not only feminists but many other progressives are screaming about this being a Republican scandal. At least some out there have the common sense to know that Palfrey’s list likely contains just as many blue politicians as red. Feminists can hardly spare time debating which party is worse than the other- there are real issues that feminists need to find common-ground on in the midst of this scandal.

Yes, those who use their influence to attack reproductive justice by restricting prostitution, abortion, birth control and STD prevention resources- are hypocrites and deserve to resign in shame from their positions of power. Their crime however, is not in negotiating a payment in exchange for sex or entertainment. The difference between legal sex and illicit sex is that with the latter, clear boundaries are negotiated up front in the form of dollars and hours. Do feminists really want to limit a woman’s right to negotiate and enforce boundaries?

Regardless of the who’s-who list and the shameful resignations, the fact remains that the ‘bad girls’ burn in the flames of the prostitution witch-hunts while feminists and other women look on with indifference and occasionally with contempt. Religious and patriarchal definitions of acceptable female sexual behavior still run deep- even within the women’s movement. If feminists cannot identify sex workers’ rights as a legitimate element of choice, then they are just as hypocritical as Tobias and they are equally responsible for the systematic oppression of some women based on their sexual choices.

Those who are truly being ‘used by men’ are Palfrey and the women she employed- not by the men who used their services, but by the men who operate under-cover schemes, blackmail, lie and bully them into fighting against each other in civil and criminal suits.

This ought to be a call for feminists to wake up and smell the divide-and-conquer.

– Karly Kirchner

Randall Tobias: Of Pledges and Prostitutes

from remarks introducing Taking the Pledge at the UC Berkeley Labor Center, May 3rd, 2007

As a sex worker rights activist, based primarily in the US, one of my biggest frustrations is that the rhetoric of anti-prostitution activists mobilizing against trafficking attempts to draw a connection between the sex industry in the US and what they call “sex trafficking” or “commercial sexual exploitation” globally.

What’s very challenging as a US-based advocate is to get a solid, evidence-based view of how the sex industry operates in the places that anti-prostitution activists focus on: the global south, the former Soviet republics, and especially, Southeast Asia.

In March of 2006, I had the honor of representing the Desiree Alliance’s US network at the Sexual Health and Rights Project’s annual meeting, in Phnom Penh, Cambodia. The meeting brought together members of the international sex workers’ rights movements to strategize a global agenda for sex worker’s human rights. You will see, in Taking the Pledge, members of many these groups and workers and allies who were present.

We were privileged to meet members of Cambodia’s sex worker rights organizations, the Women’s Network for Unity and Womyn’s Agenda for Change, two groups that organize sex workers & advocate for their health & safety, civil and labor rights. These are two of many sex worker organizations who have had their HIV prevention and human rights work significantly curbed or halted by the anti-prostitution policies set by the US government as part of their own strategies – non-strategies, really – to combat HIV and human trafficking – as if a better solution to preventing AIDS and forced labor is to jail someone, not to educate them about their health and rights.

Now here is a place where the sex industry in the US, the sex industry in the developing world, and the anti-prostitution movement do connect, and it’s a story that you already know, if you’ve been following the news this week: at least, a small part of this story is hitting the press.

Deborah Jean Palfrey is the former proprietor of an adult fantasy and escort service, who, in October of last year, woke up to find her bank accounts frozen. She quickly learned that she was under Federal investigation alleging that her money had been made illegally through running a prostitution business. Now on the eve of her trial, as part of making a case in her defense, she is releasing forty sevens pounds of cell phone records from her business to the media, and this week, making them available one page at a time on her website. Now the media is consumed with extrapolating names from these telephone numbers. So far, only one man named as a customer has confirmed that he did, in fact, use Ms. Palfrey’s escort service, and this is a name that no one in this room should forget: Randall Tobias.

Randall Tobias was the Bush appointed administrator of the United States Agency of International Development, or USAID. He has been called the Bush administration’s “AIDS Czar,” and, until his unexpected resignation last Friday, was responsible for holding NGO’s and CBO’s to what we in the sex worker rights movement call “the pledge,” a signed loyalty oath stating that their organization opposes prostitution. As of 2003, under Tobias, organizations around the globe – with histories stretching to the beginning of the HIV/AIDS epidemic, who, through peer education, direct services, community education and organizing have a proven record of increasing the health and welfare of sex workers – were now condemned for doing anything that the US believes to be “promoting” prostitution.

Drop-in centers in Bangladesh serving some of the country’s the most vulnerable and impoverished women and children were shutdown because they accepted sex workers into their programs. English language education programs in Thailand were defunded because they taught sex workers. Condoms for sex workers in East Africa became so hard to come by that sex workers would wash and reuse them out of desperation. In Brazil, in resistance, $40 million of USAID funds were returned to the US on the grounds that excluding sex workers from their work was a public health and human rights failure too great to risk any money over.

If the “pledge” were, as the Bush administration and its supporters in the anti-prostitution movement contend, an effective strategy to end violence and human rights violations against vulnerable workers, then why are its only measurable effects the closing of social service programs that better the health and welfare of sex workers, and the increased kidnapping and incarceration of sex workers “for their own good”?

When you watch this video, I want you to reflect on the fact that the government agency, the very man himself responsible for enforcing this “pledge” is himself a client of sex workers. Tobias does not deny that he’s used Ms. Palfrey’s services – in fact, he’s bragged to ABC news how easy it was to invite “gals over to the condo for massages.” We, in this room… well, those of us who can or do who pay taxes… pay his salary, with which he hires sex workers for his own pleasure and robs other sex workers of their human rights to education, health, and safety. But Randall Tobias isn’t to be condemned for his desire for erotic companionship – rather, for his utter hypocrisy and his agency’s direct role in violating the human rights of the very people it claims to serve.

We in the US – sex worker rights advocates and our networks of supporters – all have a role to play in ensuring the wellbeing of sex workers around the world, and holding policies like those of USAID and its most celebrated now-former administrator accountable – are one of the most sound steps we can take, as our actions against these polices are, unlike the policies themselves, based in evidence of these programs failures, the hypocrisy of their administrators, and the requests of sex workers themselves around the world to take a stand in their name, for our collective good.

Now, Taking the Pledge.

– Melissa Gira