- published: 01 Apr 2011
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Nagging, in interpersonal communication, is repetitious behaviour in the form of pestering, hectoring, or otherwise continuously urging an individual to complete previously discussed requests or act on advice. As expressed by Elizabeth Bernstein, a Wall Street Journal reporter, nagging is "the interaction in which one person repeatedly makes a request, the other person repeatedly ignores it and both become increasingly annoyed". Thus, nagging is a form of persistent persuasion that is more repetitive than aggressive and it is an interaction to which each party contributes. Nagging is a very common form of persuasion used in all aspects of life including domestic and professional. It is also a common practice in order to avoid more aggressive persuasive moves like threats. The word is derived from the Scandinavian nagga, which means "to gnaw".
Kari P. Soule describes nagging as an "interpersonal ritual" but states that the term "seldom appears in interpersonal communication or conflict textbooks. It appears that 'nagging' is commonly used in everyday conversation but it rarely makes it to academic print".
neutge daniji jom ma
sureun meolli jom haebwa
yeol saljjari aecheoreom mareul an deutni
jeongmal useumman nawa
nuga nugul bogo aira haneunji
jeongmal useumman nawa
sirheun yaegi hage doeneun nae mameul molla
joheun yaegiman nanugo sipeun nae mameul molla
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hanabuteo yeolkkaji da neol wihan sori
nae mal deutji annneun neoegeneun ppeonhan jansori
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niga sirta haedo an hal suga eomneun iyagi
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neoui jansoriman deullyeo
babeun je ttae meongneunji
yeojan meolli haneunji
on jongireul ne yeope itgo sipeunde
naega geu mamingeoya
jumeoni soge neol neoko danimyeon
jeongmal haengbokhal tende
duri animyeon andoeneun uri iyagi
nuga deutneundamyeon nollyeodaego useul iyagi
geumanhalkka? geumanhaja
hanabuteo yeolkkaji da neol wihan sori
nae mal deutji annneun neoegeneun ppeonhan jansori
geumanhaja geumanhaja
saranghagiman haedo sigan eomneunde
meo ri anin gaseumeuro haneun iyagi
niga sirta haedo an hal suga eomneun iyagi
geumanhaja geumanhaja
naui jansoriga deullyeo?
nun e himeul jugo geobeul jwobwado
naegen geujeo gwiyeoun eolgul
ireollae jakku(jakku neo) deoneun mot chamgo(chamgo na)
jeongmal hwanaelji molla
saranghada malgeoramyeon an hal iyagi
nuguboda neoreul saenggakhaneun maeumui sori
hwaga nado sori chyeodo
neoui jansorimajeo nan dalkomhande
saranghaeya hal su inneun geureon iyagi
nae mal deutji annneun neoegeneun ppeonhan jansori
geumanhaja geumanhaja