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What if 'straight' didn't exist?
Katherine Feeney The modern obsession with categorising our sexuality is unhealthy.
What men really think of women who make the first move
Katherine Feeney While they may like the idea of a female lead, in practice do men prefer making the approach themselves?
Why men need to forget about 'orgasm obligation'
Katherine Feeney Orgasm anxiety is taking the fun out of sex.
Charlize Theron's rude vanishing act
Katherine Feeney Ever stopped responding to texts, calls and emails from a lover? Then you're an impolite ghost.
What's the male equivalent of a boob job?
Katherine Feeney None of a man's sexual elements are as public as a woman's breasts, therefore no bit belonging to a man is up for as much public debate.
Does polyamory equal a better life?
Katherine Feeney Can open-relationships offer people true open-mindedness?
Could marriage equality kill off matrimony's most cringeworthy tradition?
Katherine Feeney If women proposing marriage is now acceptable, why aren't more doing it?
What to do with sexts from your ex
Katherine Feeney "Texts From Your Ex" may be a popular Instagram account but what should you do when a new partner discovers them?
Are you game enough to go #nofilter?
Katherine Feeney Those who fake selfies of their sexual assets to the point of unreality have a tiger by the tail.
Is not watching the birth man's biggest mistake?
Katherine Feeney "It would be like watching my favourite pub burning down," I guy I know likes to say. "That end's all about pleasure, not business – and I'd like to think the only thing pushing its way around there would belong to me."
When menopause happens to modern couples
Katherine Feeney 'The end' is not so much actually that. In some ways, it is a new beginning.
Dealing with a lover scarred by cheating
Katherine Feeney Once cut, are lovers scorned forever scarred?
What's 'The One' when you have 'the many' on Tinder?
Katherine Feeney Couples have been able to find love for centuries without dating apps. Is technology a better matchmaker or does it merely expand choices?
The relationship between sickness and divorce
Iowa State University sociologists report in this March Issue of Journal of Health and Social Behavior that couples in which wives got sick are six percent more likely to divorce than couples where the wives remained healthy. Note we’re talking about wives here – the paper says a husband’s illness did not increase the risk for divorce.
Are blokes really that worried about their ability to ejaculate?
As one fella put it to me, "when you're looking for a serve of dessert, you don't want to skimp on the cream. Anyone caught dishing up a less than decent dollop doesn't rate a second chance. Nobody wants to beg for seconds, especially if the cupboard is bare".
Enjoying Valentine’s Day could improve your sex life
Enjoying Valentine’s Day may help those who struggle with orgasms. By the same token, hating on Valentine’s Day might well prove ruinous to your hopes of ever having a rewarding relationship.
