About VictorM

I’m retired and run this site purely as a hobby. As you can see, there are no ads displayed and I have no interest in monetizing the site. I make no money from it and like to keep it that way.

Besides maintaining this site, I enjoy traveling, cooking, watching and following soccer, surfing the internet, and following politics.

I’ve been fascinated by the way men and women see the world so differently, particularly as it relates to relationships. After getting divorced, I sought professional therapy to help me deal with my predicament and soon was devouring self-help books to complement the therapy sessions. I embarked on a quest to deal with my inadequacies (shyness being the biggest one) and came to realize there was so much more to learn about myself and about women.

One of the benefits of running this site is that I’m constantly learning from women about how they think and feel. And I hope you gain a peek into how men think and what they really mean by what they do or say.

DISCLAIMER:
I am not a health care professional. I hope to be helpful and entertaining, but for serious matters I encourage you to seek professional help.

 

About ARGville

If what you want is a sympathetic ear and people who tell you what you want to hear, talk to your girlfriends. But if you want to know how men process information and what they really mean when they do or say something, or do or say nothing (yes, silence is a powerful form of communication), you’ve come to the right place.

You’re welcome to submit questions about relationships and dating, particularly as they relate to male behavior.

The advice given will be sprinkled with humor, blunt honesty, and without apologies.