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5 ways to rekindle the romance once you have kids

In order to keep your relationship strong, you need to endeavour to make it a priority.

DANIELLE COLLEY Having a baby is the most profound thing you can do as a couple, but it's important to understand that the shape of your relationship is bound to change.

Why do unhappy couples stay together?

One in 20 couples have picked a date 10 or more years into the future to change the locks.

KASEY EDWARDS Why do unhappy couples stay together, some resigning themselves to unhappiness for over a decade before cutting their losses?

More to a happy marriage than date nights

Keeping the spark in your marriage can be tricky once you are parents.

Heidi Stevens Look for ways and moments to make your partner beam with pride. Watch your kids light up when they hear kind words about the people they cherish most.

New study

The most dangerous sex position revealed

Risky sex: 'Woman on top' responsible for half of all penile fractures in the bedroom.

Sarah Knapton This position is responsible for half of all penile fractures during sexual intercourse.

Questions to ask your partner before marriage or kids

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PAUL CHAI You will change, your spouse will change and kids will utterly change you and your life in ways you only think you understand.

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Healing a family rift before Christmas

HEAL THE RIFT: Unresolved tension can overshadow Christmas.

Aileen Nakhle Christmas is a time to share with those we cherish most. But festivities and family are not always an easy pairing.

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Australian divorce rate lowest since 1976

Jill Robertson with her partner Craig Jerrom and daughter Ella, 5, and baby Ewen, 20 months. The couple are getting married next year.

MARC MONCRIEF Modern newlyweds are now well into their 30s and marriage still offers something powerful a new book argues.

The disagreement that can break a relationship

Marina Kamenev If he doesn't change his mind, all I can hope is that I will. It would be a waste to spend the rest of my marriage mourning a baby that never was.

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Keys to heavenly peace

Christmas is a time of joy, but it can also be stressful for busy families.

Leslie Barker Whatever first set your holiday heart pounding, your hands sweating and your fingers trembling, your stress level is, in all likelihood, up. It may not level off for a while.

The 7-year itch is more like the 10-year itch: study

A decade-long culmination of childcare and household chores can bring couples down.

Contrary to popular belief, making it past the seven-year mark doesn't mean your marriage will be smooth sailing from there on.

What values do you want to teach your kids?

Regardless of whether they have toddlers or teenagers, most parents believe in similar family values.

JODIE BENVENISTE Values are what we believe is important in life. They reflect the person we want to be, and the kinds of kids we want to raise.

No, a baby won't save a failing relationship

Not valued: Can a baby save a sinking relationship?

KATHERINE FEENEY It seems to be the dumbest thing you could do, yet so many people do it. Why?

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Keeping your relationship on track as new parents

We change when we become parents - for the better and the  worse.

Rashida Tayabali About 70 per cent of couples experience a slump in their relationship within three years of having a baby. Here's how we tried to get back on track.

Aussies open up about their sex lives

Sex contracts: Covering all bases?

AMY CORDEROY A more open society has allowed the sexual repertoire of Australians to expand - but we're having less sex.

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Daughter adds herself to mum's old photos

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Artist Danielle Delph superimposed herself alongside her mum for her photographic series "If I had known my mother back then". The old photos reimagine what it would have been like if Danielle and her mother, Janis, had grown up together and shared the same pastimes.

Daughter imagines life as her mum's best friend in sweet photo series

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Laura Vitto An artist images life growing up alongside her mother by photoshopping herself in her photographs.

Why you need a date night - and how to make it happen

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JO HARTLEY When we become parents, our relationship with our partner inevitably evolves very quickly. But it's important to keep close - and date nights can help.

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When your man does not want to get "fixed"

Some men do not like the idea of getting

KATHERINE FEENEY It takes two to make a baby. So what happens when you want your partner to go under the knife to avoid unexpected pregnancies but the idea is not well received?

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How I re-met my mother

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Fern Greig-Moore Once you're a parent, it can take work to maintain a healthy functioning relationship. And that’s even if the relationship is with your own mother or father.

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When a community of kindness steps in

KYLIE ORR In future when someone I care for, or even someone I barely know, is experiencing a difficult time, I will not overthink it. I'll follow my heart.

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The 'no children' wedding invite

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DANIELLE COLLEY It was the wedding of one of my oldest and dearest friends, and she had invited me to be her bridesmaid. It was quite an honour. But there was one problem.

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Our Watch: ending the national emergency of domestic violence

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LETITIA ROWLANDS An ambitious new national initiative aims to address the "national emergency" of domestic violence across Australia.

Video: The challenges and joys of making new mum friends

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Jen Ng This hilarious video shows how making new mum friends can be awkward - but reassures that it is possible.

5 secrets to a long-lasting relationship

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JODIE BENVENISTE When it comes to keeping your relationship strong, it’s what you do - and not what you want - that really matters.

I'm straight, but I'm married to another woman

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Leslie Hilburn Fabian I didn't know what his sex-change would mean for our marriage, but remaining married to a miserable man was no longer viable for me. We had to take the plunge.

What’s your love language?

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JODIE BENVENISTE The secret to making your partner feel special is to know which language of love they favour – and it’s the same for your kids, too.

20 signs of a great relationship

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The secret to a perfect relationship is admitting you are wrong after an argument, five kisses a day and sex twice a week, a new survey suggests.

The problem with 'the silent treatment'

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Giving your partner the cold shoulder can signal a serious sign of distress in the relationship.

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When you're under pressure to have a baby

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JO HARTLEY Family, friends, and even, in some instances, complete strangers can feel the need to weigh in with advice on when you should have kids. How should you deal with it?

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Misery loves Facebook

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JO HARTLEY Facebook users are often criticised for only showing the positive, fun parts of their lives. But what about when it swings the other way, when someone uses it for the purposes of ranting about their children all the time, never posting anything positive?

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Man faces jail after giving woman abortion pill smoothie

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'He's a blessing': family of baby born without eyes

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Super fit model Sarah Stage defends her pregnancy body

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Why I had the new test for Down syndrome

Early last year I turned 35, and having just found out I was pregnant, I opted to have the new test for Down syndrome.

The day I broke my baby

There are things I wish I didn't know. I wish I didn't know that companies make tiny braces, small enough to hold necks no bigger than a wrist.

Why I post breastfeeding photos online

I love to take pictures of my children. In some of the pictures, my younger son is nursing.

Brave mum calls for domestic violence law reform

A brave mum of two has shared details of the harrowing attacks she suffered at the hands of her partner in a bid to help other victims of domestic violence.

The place just for dads of multiples

When a couple discovers they're expecting multiples, the dad can sometimes be almost forgotten in all the excitement and preparation. But one group offers a space just for dads of twins and higher-order multiples.

Pete Evans' cookbook 'not safe' for babies

A baby and toddler cookbook co-authored by celebrity chef Pete Evans has been held back from publication after health officials said a baby could die if parents followed its Paleo recipes.

5 unspoken fantasies of mums of young kids

Every so often, you descend into one of these mum fantasies that so many of us have but don't usually discuss aloud.

6 handy apps for new parents

We’ve got the low down on six of the most popular and useful apps available today, specifically designed for new mums.

How a common painkiller almost killed my baby

I decided to get my baby some Nurofen. Little did I know I was about to set off the most horror filled week of my life to date.

How brain training helped me recover from postnatal depression

Put simply, I had to re-train my brain. And it was a real process, not just a moment between 'not good' and 'better'.

How my iPhone addiction made me a terrible mum

I embarked on an experiment. I decided to quit my phone, cold turkey, for one week. I wanted to see if I really needed all that connectivity.

The tidying trick that works for us

We have four kids. We could be the poster house for how not to display stuff. But I've discovered a new trick that's working ... for now.

5 ways to rekindle the romance once you have kids

Having a baby is the most profound thing you can do as a couple, but it's important to understand that the shape of your relationship is bound to change.

New mum's cancer warning

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