Domestic Violence

The questions men need to ask themselves about how they treat women

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Andrew O'Keefe White Ribbon ambassador Andrew O'Keefe on why domestic violence education should start at home.

More companies offer their employees paid domestic violence leave

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RACHEL BROWNE An increasing number of large private-sector companies are offering their workers paid domestic violence leave in a move which advocates say recognises that the problem is no longer a private matter.

Men's role in ending sexual violence

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Virginia Haussegger Why we need men to be involved in this week's anti-rape global summit.

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How to talk about the sexual violence in India

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Clementine Ford It’s tempting to wholly condemn a nation following the latest sex crimes. But here's why we shouldn't.

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What Christy Mack's assault teaches us about modern misogyny

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CLEMENTINE FORD Trigger warning: contains graphic imagery and discussions of sexual assault

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Battered Disney princesses shows domestic violence can happen to anyone

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Candice Chung Artist creates jarring series that shows no one is immune from domestic abuse.

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The women who keep abuse victims safe

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Suzanne Wilbur "If you decide to leave a violent home, you’ll be safe with us, and you can stay for a while."

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How our obsession with marriage fuels abuse

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CLEMENTINE FORD The concept of male-bestowed ‘protection’ is one that harms rather than helps women.

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Victim blaming

The danger women can't control

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Alexandra Petri Because, somehow, this still needs repeating: "The behaviour of other people is something they, not you, are responsible for."

FINANCIAL RECOVERY

Women who leave with nothing

Moving out and up: It is difficult escaping abuse and it carries financial implications.

Sylvia Pennington Getting away from abusive situations is hard, getting back on your feet financially can be harder still.

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Anne Summers on the fight to save women-only refuges

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Anne Summers Anne Summers on the importance of women run, non-religious affiliated refuges for women.

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This is what financial abuse looks like

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JENNA PRICE It leaves no physical signs – except maybe the signs of a woman who can’t eat because she has to choose between feeding herself and feeding her children. It’s financial abuse.

NSW homes face rising domestic assault rates

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NICK RALSTON The rate of domestic violence in NSW continues to rise, bucking the downward trend of most other crimes including assault within pubs and clubs, which has fallen thanks to state government intervention, new statistics show.

More women at risk as NSW government closes emergency shelters

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RACHEL BROWNE Services for families fleeing violence face an uncertain future.

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#YesAllWomen: Twitter's powerful reaction to the Santa Barbara Shootings

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CLEMENTINE FORD Under the hashtag #yesallwomen, a litany of complaints and outrages have swept across the Twittersphere.

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Homelessness risk for women after funding review

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Amy Corderoy, Rachel Browne Homeless women are already being evicted from refuges under a new measure that cuts $5 million out of city homelessness services, advocates say.

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"Now it will be harder to leave and even harder to get legal support."

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JENNA PRICE The women whose lives are at risk because of Tony Abbott's budget

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A day at a women's crisis support centre

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ALICE WILLIAMS Meet the women that abuse victims turn to when they have nowhere else to turn.

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Cecily McMillan faces seven years jail after being brutally assaulted

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Clementine Ford Clem Ford on the blatant victim blaming that formed the prosecution’s case.

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Violent men and the women they 'love'

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CLEMENTINE FORD Clem Ford on the most dangerous get-out-of-jail-free card used by abusers.

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How to deal with anger in a relationship

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There are more options besides lashing out or retreating in silence.

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Facing up to violence against women with disabilities

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CLEM BASTOW Violence against women with disabilities is a shockingly large problem in our communities.

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Hollywood actors star in new PSA about sexual assault

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Candice Chung Featuring powerful messages from Daniel Craig, Benicio del Toro, Steve Carell and Obama.

New research body will focus on devastating impacts of violence against women

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JULIEANNE STRACHAN The devastating impacts of violence against women will be the focus of a new research body.

We must speak out to tackle culture of violence against women and children

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Natasha Stott Despoja A woman is killed nearly every week in Australia by a male partner or ex-partner – often while she is trying to leave the relationship.

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It's not enough to ask abuse victims to leave

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CLEMENTINE FORD We need to stop blaming domestic violence victims in the face of tragedy.

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Support victims of domestic abuse this Mother's Day

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Make a Mother's Day donation to an organisation that provides emotional and practical support to victims of family violence.

Anna Bligh on how we can stop domestic violence

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JOSEPHINE TOVEY Anna Bligh has a challenge for Australian men: if you think your mates might be hitting their wives or girlfriends, tell them: ''I don't want to be your friend if you're doing this kind of stuff.''

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Men must take a zero-tolerance approach to mates' domestic violence

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Anna Bligh My first job out of university was working as a child support worker in a women's refuge, working with the children whose mothers were escaping violence in their home.

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Australia needs more women's shelters

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Mandy Sayer Australia's first women's refuge was opened in 1974, and today the need for shelters is as great as ever.

Fears funds cut will leave homeless women without shelter

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AMY CORDEROY Homeless women fleeing domestic violence or suffering severe mental illness will be left without specialist support in a radical overhaul of homelessness services in NSW, advocates say.

Domestic violence: NSW hits 15-year peak

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RACHEL OLDING Domestic violence in December reached its highest level in 15 years, bucking a statewide decline in all other major offences.

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How I finally walked away from my violent partner

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Melissa. As told to Alice Williams I still don't really think of myself as a victim of domestic violence, but the truth is I was.

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What Joe Hildebrand's confrontation with Rosie Batty teaches us about discussing family violence

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ANDIE FOX There is a right and wrong way to talk to victims of domestic violence crimes.

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Legal loopholes drag out trauma for domestic violence victims

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RACHEL OLDING ''You make a second statement, I will rip your throat out''.

Tech

Spyware's role in domestic violence

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RACHEL OLDING It is marketed as the perfect solution for worried mothers and vigilant bosses: secret mobile phone spyware that monitors a person's texts, calls, photos, emails and web browsing.

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I witnessed domestic violence and didn't turn away

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Susan Metcalfe Susan Metcalfe finds out what happens when you put aside the fear that tells us not to get involved.

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Tanya Plibersek calls on Tony Abbott to demonstrate his commitment to reducing violence against women

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LISA VISENTIN Deputy Opposition Leader Tanya Plibersek has pledged support to Daily Life’s Shine a Light campaign.

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Rural Australia's domestic violence crisis

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RACHEL OLDING Domestic violence incidents per capita in regional NSW are up to 10 times worse than the city.

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Shocking video shows domestic violence through Google Glass

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Candice Chung "Despite all our progress, women see this everyday."

Primary schoolchildren need to be taught about domestic violence and sexism: campaigners

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Amy Corderoy, Rachel Olding Domestic violence should be on school curriculum.

Domestic violence: Police hit out at 'ludicrous' legislation

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RACHEL OLDING Crucial evidence gathered at the scene of domestic violence incidents cannot be used in court because of outdated legislation branded as ''ludicrous'' by the NSW Police Force's head of domestic violence.

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Domestic violence against indigenous women is everybody's problem

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Louise Taylor The position of the Indigenous women in our society are the litmus test of how far we have to go.

IWD issues

Why domestic violence is the most important issue this International Women's Day

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Moo Baulch There is so much more to domestic violence than many people understand.

Tech-assisted stalking

Digital abuse is the new frontier of domestic violence

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CLEM BASTOW While online trolling and cyberbullying get a lot of attention technology-assisted stalking and controlling by a partner or ex-partner is quietly on the rise.

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Real life

Inside a violent family

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Tui Leleisiuao My first memory of violence was when I was three, most of it directed towards my Mum. As the oldest sibling, I would often cop it too, usually when I was standing in the middle trying to protect my Mum and my siblings from my father. I'd often get hit, whether it was from a broken glass being shattered on the wall, or a fist.

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On the home front

When violence is hard to talk about

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KASEY EDWARDS What happens when the perpetrators of violent crimes aren’t trench-coat wearing strangers.

Why won't we act?

The violence in our own backyard

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Melissa Davey We're quick to condemn violence against women in India or Afghanistan, but how many of us give the same thought and attention to the hundreds of women hospitalised in indigenous communities?

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When family violence is a daily occurence

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Sayeed Aleemullah Shah What it's like to work with survivors of domestic violence in Papua New Guinea.

Teens seeing violence as normal

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RACHEL BROWNE A rising number of domestic violence incidents in which an adolescent is the perpetrator has sparked concern from child welfare experts that teens view aggression as a ''normal'' part of life.

Violence against women

Stopping violence against women

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Melanie Poole One in three women experience violence. This is one woman's story of how it happened to her and what we can do to stop it.

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Out in the open

Why didn't anyone help Nigella?

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ALECIA SIMMONDS Domestic violence is a crime like any other that should be met with zero tolerance... unfortunately it doesn't seem to be the case.

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Violence against women

Violence against women: who can make the biggest difference?

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CLEM BASTOW A new global study reveals the answer.

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Economic abuse

When you can't afford to leave an abusive relationship

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CLEM BASTOW "Women living in poverty are more at risk of experiencing family violence."

What Cleveland tells us about the cycle of abuse

FILE - In this Monday, May 6, 2013 file photo, Amanda Berry, right, hugs her sister Beth Serrano after being reunited in a Cleveland hospital. For Berry, Gina DeJesus and Michelle Knight, who were freed from captivity inside a Cleveland house on Monday, the ordeal is not over. Next comes recovery _ from sexual abuse and their sudden, jarring reentry into a world much different than the one they were snatched from a decade ago. (AP Photo/Family Handout courtesy WOIO-TV, File)

CLEMENTINE FORD There were several red flags leading up to Castro's capture. Why were they ignored?

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I am taking a stand on domestic violence today

Five things we can do to inspire change on domestic violence.

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Resources for women

f you feel you might be in an abusive relationship or know someone who could be, there are organisations that are available to assist you, and numbers you can call.

Help keep women and girls safe

If you would like to take a stand by donating much needed funds to support women and children who have experienced domestic violence, here are some helpful links.

Our pledge

Domestic violence: our pledge

Sarah Oakes, Editor, Sunday Life.
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Australian women have the right to be safe in their homes. We intend to keep publishing stories that send this message until it is heard.

The campaign

Find out more about SMH and Daily Life's #ShineALight campaign

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For every high-profile case in the news, another victim dies in shrouded in silence.