There are approximately 5 steps to making love to a woman. Personally these are my steps that i am sharing with you all and hopes that it helps. The setting: Most women need to feel relaxed in order to be in the mood. If she is preoccupied with other obligations, or stress she may need to deal with these before feeling like making love. The simplest way to help her relax is by encouraging her to talk about the stress she is feeling. If you're at home a hot bath can also help a woman to relax. It is this slow process that connects a woman with her sexual needs. By gently stimulating her one step at a time, her desire to make love is awakened. Beginning to touch: Touching a woman can begin simply by touching her hair, her hand or other non-sexual parts of her body. Begin kissing her slowly at first, keeping your desire to devour her in check. Women are particularly stimulated when their many erogenous zones are kissed, nibbled, and suckled. Before removing her clothes you can kiss her mouth without tongue, and then with tongue. Kiss her neck, ear lobes, shoulders, and upper chest. The long process of kissing her before removing clothes will continue increasing her arousal. A man should remember that to increase a woman's pleasure he needs to delay direct stimulation. It will take longer, and sometimes it will seem as if nothing is working, but her eventual pleasure will be even greater. Removing her clothes: When you begin undressing a woman, it should be slow and enticing. Unless you are having steamy sex, when you make love to a woman remove her clothes one article at a time. Keep in mind that sometimes leaving something on can also be erotic. Begin by teasing her. Remove her blouse but not her bra. Continue kissing and caressing her through her bra, until she is ready for you to touch her breasts directly. Use slow, rhythmic back and forth movements to stimulate her breasts. You can circle the breast with your hands or your mouth. Slowly her nipples will become erect, indicating her arousal. After stimulating both breasts like this, you can remove her bra. Removing a woman's bra can be quite tricky. If you are not sure how to do this it can be an awkward moment. The best way to learn how to do this is to practice when you partner is not at home. Practice fastening and unfastening the clasp so the next time you have the chance the movement is smooth and fluid. Remain at the upper half of her body until you have caressed her fully. As you sense her longing increase, begin to slowly move your hands toward the lower half of her body. Increasing her desire: To increase the desire she is already feeling, as you begin moving south surprise her by teasing her a bit. Using your hands rub over her clothes while kissing her nipples. When you do this you are stimulating her on multiple levels and her arousal is growing. A man should begin to touch between her legs only when he thinks she is already wet. Sometimes it's good to first touch around the lining of her panties and gradually move them aside to touch her directly. It can be very exciting for a woman if he doesn't suddenly pull down her panties but instead explores with them on for a while. Instead of taking them off, he can begin touching the inside edge of her panties from front to back. Exploring her buttocks and then moving back to touch and feel for her wetness before exploring further. Eventually he can remove her panties and explore her inner thighs, circling her whole vulva and eventually touching her clitoris. Often the clitoris is the most important missed part of a woman's body. The truth is that upwards of 98% of the orgasms women experience come from direct stimulation to the clitoris. Failing to stimulate the clitoris is like trying to help a man have an orgasm without touching his penis! Most women reach orgasm after having their clitoris stimulated for 5-20 minutes. Depending on your intention, you may choose to bring your partner to climax before or after you make love. For some men, their ability to spend 20 minutes focused on a woman's clitoris is greater after they have experienced orgasm. Our advice is to try it both ways and see what works best for you. Stimulating a woman's clitoris can happen orally or using your hands; both are effective. Again, your partner may have a preferred way and you can explore her body trying different techniques. The key is to give her enough attention to bring her to climax. I have heard from many women whether on the streets or on the subways that men don't spend enough time on them. Joining together: Once a woman has had an orgasm her body is the most ready for a man to enter her. . Because many women are able to achieve orgasms with little refractory period this can be a wonderful time to bring her to climax again while he is preparing to enter her for a second time.

• published: 25 Jun 2014
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