Patti Stanger is one of those non-celebrity celebrities whose existence I would probably be blissfully ignorant of were it not for this blog. I have nothing against Bravo as a network, it’s just that most of their shows, including Stanger’s Millionaire Matchmaker, are only one or two scrapes above the very bottom of the reality show barrel (the lowest of the low being reserved for TLC). But since keeping up with the chaff of cable network personae is part of my job description, I must admit that I do, in fact, know Stanger as the grating, and ironically single dating guru of the Bravo network. Good for me, right?
Anyway, as you can see from the photo at right, Stanger was one of about a zillion celebrities to lend their faces to the NOH8 Campaign protesting California’s Proposition 8. One might assume, from her participation in said campaign, that Stanger is in fact a friend of the gays.
But, of course, you know what happens when you assume:
Stanger, who got in trouble only last week after advising single women they needed to be dumber to get a man, got in a lot of heat for allegedly purporting negative gay stereotypes while guesting on Bravo’s Watch What Happens Live.
That’s right. She said mean things about gay people. While on Bravo. Bravo. That’s like going into a lion’s den and doing a live TV show where you say manes look stupid.
She was there to give relationship advice and, during her time there, told callers that gay men can’t have monogamous relationships, Jewish people lie, and said an audience member looked “straight” and that he should take it as “a compliment.”
Jeez. Maybe she’s just single and following her own advice.
Unsurprisingly, it was time for a full scale apology campaign. However, during her appearance on HLN’s Joy Behar Show, she just managed to make things worse. Behar gave her an out by asking her if her comments on gay promiscuity were due to male nature, but Stanger doubled down, explaining that gay men “whip it out at eye lock.”
Nice, right? Very un-H8-ty. Now, I watched both the Watch What Happens Live foot-in-mouth moment and the non-apology apology on the Joy Behar Show, and the truth is not only did Stanger not admit any guilt in the matter, the explanation she provided — that she wasn’t saying that all gay men are players, just all gay men in Los Angeles — was a complete misrepresentation of what she actually said on Andy Cohen’s Watch What Happens Live.
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