Daniel Keenan "Dan" Savage (born October 7, 1964) is an American author, media pundit, journalist and newspaper editor. Savage writes the internationally syndicated relationship and sex advice column ''Savage Love''. Its tone is frank in its discussion of sexuality, often humorous, and hostile to social conservatives, as in the Santorum controversy regarding homosexuality. Savage, who is gay, has often been the subject of controversy regarding some of his opinions that pointedly clash with cultural conservatives and those put forth by what Savage has been known to call the "gay establishment". He has also worked as a theater director, both under his real name and under the name Keenan Hollahan, using his middle name and his grandmother's maiden name. In 2010, Savage and his husband Terry Miller began the It Gets Better Project to help prevent suicide among LGBT youth.
Early life and college
Dan Savage was born to William and Judy Savage in
Chicago, Illinois. He is of
Irish ancestry. The third of four children, Savage was raised as a
Roman Catholic and attended
Quigley Preparatory Seminary North, which he has described as "a Catholic high school in Chicago for boys thinking of becoming
priests." Though Savage has stated that he is now "a wishy-washy
agnostic" and an
atheist, he has said that he still considers himself "culturally Catholic."
Savage attended the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign, where he studied theater and history. As a theater director, Savage (working under the name "Keenan Hollahan") was a founder of Seattle's Greek Active Theater. Much of the group's work has been queer recontextualizations of classic works, such as a tragicomic ''Macbeth'' with both the title character and Lady Macbeth played by performers of the opposite sex. In March 2001, he directed his own ''Egguus'' at Consolidated Works, a parody of Peter Shaffer's 1973 play ''Equus'' which exchanged a fixation on horses for a fixation on chickens. Savage has not directed, produced, or performed in any productions since a 2003 production of ''Letters from the Earth'', also at Consolidated Works, his trimmed version of Mark Twain's ''The Diary of Adam and Eve'', which received scathing reviews, including one from his own paper, "My Boss's Show Stinks".
Savage Love
In 1991, Savage was living in
Madison, Wisconsin, and working as a manager at a local video store that specialized in independent film titles. There, Savage befriended Tim Keck, co-founder of ''
The Onion'', who announced that he was moving to Seattle to help start an alternative weekly newspaper titled ''
The Stranger''. Savage "made the offhand comment that forever altered [his] life: 'Make sure your paper has an advice column — everybody claims to hate 'em, but everybody seems to read 'em'." Savage typed up a sample column, and to Savage's surprise Keck offered him the job.
Savage stated in a February 2006 interview in ''The Onion'''s ''A.V. Club'' (which publishes his column) that he began the column with the express purpose of providing mocking advice to heterosexuals. Savage wanted to call the column "Hey Faggot!" His editors at the time refused his choice of column name, but for the first several years of the column, he attached "Hey Faggot!" at the beginning of each printed letter as a salutation. According to Savage:
In his February 25, 1999 column, Savage announced that he was retiring the phrase: "Lo many columns later, it feels strange to begin every column with a joke about a debate that ended years ago."
He has written in a number of columns about "straight rights" concerns, such as the HPV vaccine and the morning-after pill, stating in his November 9, 2005, column that "[t]he right-wingers and the fundies and the sex-phobes don't just have it in for the queers. They're coming for your asses too."
Radio and journalism
thumb|right|Dan Savage speaking at Illinois Wesleyan University, 2007In addition to maintaining his weekly column and authoring four books, Savage has been involved in several other projects.
From 1994 until 1997, he had a weekly three-hour call-in show called ''Savage Love Live'' on Seattle's KCMU (now KEXP). From 1998 to 2000, he ran the biweekly advice column ''Dear Dan'' on the news website abcnews.com.
He is now the editorial director of the weekly Seattle newspaper ''The Stranger'', a promotion from his former position as ''The Stranger''s editor-in-chief. Savage is currently a contributor to ''This American Life'', an hour-long radio show on Chicago's WBEZ syndicated by PRI, as well as a frequent contributor to ''Out'' magazine and a "Real Time Real Reporter" on HBO's ''Real Time with Bill Maher''. He has also made multiple appearances on MSNBC's ''Countdown with Keith Olbermann'' and CNN's ''Anderson Cooper 360'' discussing LGBT politcal issues such as same-sex marriage and Don't Ask Don't Tell.
Podcast
The
Savage Lovecast is a weekly audio
podcast based on Savage's column ''
Savage Love'', available via
iTunes and at the ''Stranger'''s website for free download. It features Savage doing a call-in version of his sex advice column.
iPhone App
In 2010, the Savage Love
iPhone App was released. The app features a "Question of the Day" pulled from "Slog," the Stranger's blog, as well as archived and indexed advice from ''Savage Love''s archives. The app also provides access to The Savage Lovecast
podcast and videos of Savage's speaking appearances, among other features.
Opinions and points of view
It Gets Better Project
On September 21, 2010, Savage started the
It Gets Better Project in light of the suicide of 15-year-old Billy Lucas, who was bullied for his perceived
sexual orientation. The project encourages adults, both LGBT and otherwise, to submit videos assuring gay teenagers that life can improve after bullying in early life. As of January 3, 2011, the project had over 5,000 user created testimonials.
Political advocacy
Savage has written about his interest in political matters. His political leanings are primarily
liberal, with pronounced
contrarian and
libertarian streaks.
For example, he wrote that in 2000, suffering from the
flu while on an assignment for
salon.com to cover the
Iowa caucuses, he was so angered by televised remarks in opposition to
same-sex marriage by
conservative Republican presidential hopeful
Gary Bauer that he abandoned his original plan "to follow one of the loopy conservative Christian candidates around — Bauer or
Alan Keyes — and write something insightful and humanizing about him, his campaign, and his supporters." Instead, he volunteered for the Bauer campaign with the intent to infect the candidate with his
flu. He wrote that he licked doorknobs and other objects in the campaign office, and handed Bauer a
saliva-coated pen, hoping to pass the virus on to Bauer and his supporters (though he later said that much of the article had been fictitious). He also registered and participated in the caucus, which was illegal, as Savage was not an Iowa resident. He was charged and pleaded guilty to a
misdemeanor charge of fraudulent voting in a caucus, and was sentenced to a year's
probation, 50 hours of
community service, and a $750 fine.
Savage frequently mentions political issues in his column, particularly issues that affect family planning, birth control, and sexuality. He often encourages readers to get involved and/or voice a positive or negative opinion about a politician or public official.
After Rick Santorum, then a United States senator from Pennsylvania, made comments to a reporter comparing homosexual sex to bestiality and incest in 2003, Savage assailed Santorum in his column. Later, he sponsored a contest that led to the term ''santorum'' being used to refer to "the frothy mixture of lube and fecal matter that is sometimes a byproduct of anal sex". Savage set up a website to spread the definition. In 2010, Savage offered to remove his website if Rick Santorum would agree to donate US$5 million to a gay rights group. The organization, Freedom to Marry, advocates on behalf of same-sex marriage in the United States. Savage told ''Mother Jones'' in 2010, "If Rick Santorum wants to make a $5 million donation to [the gay marriage group] Freedom to Marry, I will take it down. Interest starts accruing now." Evan Wolfson, executive director of Freedom to Marry, responded in a statement to ''Metro Weekly'': "Support for Freedom to Marry's national campaign would be welcome—and a good way for Rick Santorum to start cleaning up the discriminatory mess he and his companions have made."
Savage continued the tradition in 2009 by having his readers vote to define ''saddlebacking'' as "the phenomenon of Christian teens engaging in unprotected anal sex in order to preserve their virginities", as a protest against the vocal support given to California Proposition 8 by Rick Warren (pastor of Saddleback Church), and President Barack Obama's invitation to Warren to give the invocation at his inauguration. When Savage vowed to boycott Utah due to strong Mormon support for Proposition 8 ("Fuck you, Utah – we’re going to big, blue Colorado"), the ''Salt Lake City Weekly'' dropped Savage's column: "all Utahns aren’t to blame."
Savage strongly supported the war in Iraq in the pages of ''The Stranger'' in October 2002. By the time of the U.S. invasion in March 2003, however, he had somewhat softened his argument.
Savage has also been a vocal opponent of state legislation proscribing the sale of sex toys. After an exposé by Kandiss Crone from WLBT (Jackson, Mississippi) precipitated the arrest and fining of an adult video store owner, Savage suggested that readers send any sex toys that they needed to dispose of to Crone.
Personal opinions
Savage initially supported the
Iraq war and advocated military action against other
Middle Eastern states, including
Iran and
Saudi Arabia, saying, "
Islamo-fascism is a regional problem, like
European
fascism – and the
Middle East [has] to be remade just as Europe was remade." One week before the war began, Savage spoke against it, citing the inability of President
George W. Bush to form a convincing case and sway the
UN and
NATO allies. By 2005 he deemed the situation "hopeless" and advocated an immediate troop withdrawal.
He describes his view toward family as "
conservative", and his husband, Terry Miller, is a "
stay-at-home dad" for the couple's
adopted son. He has, however, expressed skepticism of "simplistic" views of
monogamy.
In response to a letter asking "Is the
AIDS crisis over?" Savage, in his October 22, 1997 column, answered simply, "Yes." Several weeks of columns were devoted in whole or in part to discussion of the issue.
In an interview with the ''
Daily Pennsylvanian'', Savage stated that then-
Green Party Senate candidate
Carl Romanelli, whom Savage claimed was partially funded by state Republicans for a
spoiler effect against Democrat
Bob Casey, "should be dragged behind a pickup truck until there's nothing left but the rope." In the same interview, he stated, "Mr. Romanelli should go fuck himself." Immediately after the interview, Savage wrote, "I regret using that truck metaphor, and didn't mean it literally, and it was in poor taste, and I regret it."
He opposes the tactics of the
War on Drugs, and opposes the prohibition of certain controlled substances.
On
HBO's ''
Real Time With Bill Maher'' July 15, 2011, during a panel discussion of the
debt limit increase negotiations between the
U.S. Congress and President
Barack Obama, Savage said in a stand-alone remark, "I wish the Republicans were all fucking dead." He apologized for his remarks on his blog later the same night saying in part, "I don't feel that way. My dad is a Republican. (Well, he says he's an independent, but he hasn't voted for a
Democrat since
JFK. My dad is a Republican.)"
Views on outing
Savage stated in a column that he favors
outing in some cases, specifically mentioning
anti-gay activist
Tyler Whitney. However, in the same column he noted that "I recently talked someone ''out'' of outing a public figure. A ''Savage Love'' reader was contemplating outing an innocuous celebrity back in April. I advised him against it because, as I wrote to him privately, outing is brutal and it should be reserved for brutes."
Local issues
Savage's editorship of ''The Stranger'' has established him as a voice in local Seattle politics. His most high-profile commentary has been as an outspoken critic of the
Teen Dance Ordinance and other crackdowns on all-ages events.
Savage argues that closing down supervised all-ages dance venues drives teens to boredom and reckless activities: "Places like Ground Zero and the Kirkland Teen Center are invaluable from a law enforcement point of view. They keep kids out of, say, 7-Eleven parking lots or the homes of friends whose parents are away."
Ann Landers
On December 3, 2002, Savage announced in an article that he had purchased columnist
Ann Landers's desk; she died on June 22 of that year.
Savage has facetiously referred to Landers as his "college roommate" and said "I like to think of myself as a gay Ann Landers."
Family and marriage
Savage's home state of Washington allows same-sex couples to adopt children and enter
civil unions, but does not legally recognize
same-sex marriage. In March 2004, Savage wrote about an action that he took to highlight what he saw as being indicative of same-sex couples' lack of legal right to marry. After his co-worker Amy Jenniges was denied a
license to marry her girlfriend Sonia, Jenniges and Savage obtained a license to marry one another. He wrote at the time, "We emphasized to the clerk and her manager that Amy and I don't live together, we don't love each other, we don't plan to have kids together, and we're going to go on living and sleeping with our same-sex partners after we get married. So could we still get a marriage license?" According to Savage, the license-department manager replied, "Sure. If you've got $54, you can have a marriage license."
Savage and his husband, Terry, have one adopted son, D.J., and were married in Vancouver, BC in 2005.
Awards
Bibliography
In addition to his advice column, Savage has written four books, edited one book, and authored various
op-ed pieces in ''
The New York Times''.
References
External links
Savage Love – Savage's weekly sex advice column
* Savage's podcasts
It Gets Better Project
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