The Mentality That Gets a Man Addicted To You

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Signup for the live seminar in July: https://mindfulattraction.org/events/ For 1:1 Coaching contact me here http://mindfulattraction.org/inner-game-coaching 1. Women are more attracted to men that are not attracted to them: woman are more turned on when men are not as into them and more turned off when they are into them. The illusion of role playing through learned hierarchical status*, such as a boss and an employee, enables women to subconsciously shift their personality in a direction of being less then. For example, a person who is known to have a better skill set in basketball , seems to outshine you because in a subtle way you allow yourself to be convinced they are better than you from what you perceive externally. When women have an illusion that there are people that are more valuable then they are, they begin to devalue themselves, in-turn becoming the victim of a bully. Women tend to let their guard down when they are in a state of "awe" because they think they found the right guy. Thus they put on a show to compensate for their insecurities and act from a place of fear; fear of losing this perfect guy. This act of neediness is allowing the man to have a control over them. Women give away their power by saying you are better then me, and I have to live up to your standards because I cannot lose you. 2. Women tend to have rose colored glasses on. How to fix that? First see that no one is better or worse than you. Don't play that game. Period. You will get nervous around people that you are attracted to and that will make them not be into you, just as the men that are into;you dont like. You dont like these men because they get nervous and care too much, showing subtle signs of weakness.* Their are two ways to change this behavior. First , get real with yourself and who you are. Know you are a person of equality with every human being on this planet. Everyone has bad breath in the morning, farts and shits on the toilet.* The second way is to start looking at the person like you would look at someone you would have fun and play with, like a dog. My dog for instance is my best friend. We hang out and have fun all the time. Naturally my reaction to my dog is to smile and not take it seriously. If my dog rejects me I laugh and giggle and play around with it, because I dont take it personal*. Or if you can picture a child, specifically their inner child*, you would be able to see that its not that serious no matter who the person is. And then you can say things like " I just saw you and thought you were cute and had to say hello" and move on. You will learn to joke and play with your own inner child as well* . The key is to LET GO. 3. Happiness starts within. Stay positive and keep playing with your inner child and others inner children*. If you continuously practice to have fun and be positive, you will naturally become a beacon of attraction*.It will become second nature to you when you practice the steps of positive reaction, YOUR BRAIN becomes conditioned to emotional self amusement to highly positive people. You will suddenly meet an attractive guy and you are just playful. And when you meet an attractive guy and your not fainting, he will be confused and start seeing that you are a woman of high value*. This will become natural and easy when you continuously practice t 4. Dont play the game!!! The reason you perceive people better or worse than you is because you play the role game. Your own perception of yourself is not real. It is a result of your environment. If you are a girl, you were given an identity of how you should be. The way to break free from this is to observe yourself. Observe the difference in your body. Is there any contraction in your body, elevation in your heart rate or descent? Put yourself in situations where you are around someone you feel highly attracted to. What do you feel in your body? What do you feel emotionally? Are you feeling inferior? Note that down and then put yourself in the place of being around someone who you are not attracted to. Are you feeling more elevated? What are the ups and downs? By answering these questions, you will be released from your roles and you will be able to take control of any situation. You will see people for who they are. You will see the essence of every person around you, that what is in you , is in them.