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Dear John - Part 3
This week, RSVP's Dating and Relationship Expert, John Aiken, continues to answer your questions about online dating, success and etiquette. Read more »
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The most common profile mistakes
Bad spelling, photos with the ex, negativity or a beige description of yourself...these are some of the worst offenders when it comes to profile writing mistakes. There is no doubt that writing a profile is hard. Most people find it challenging to summarise themselves - so don't fear, you are not alone. Read more »
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Dear John - Part 2
This week, RSVP's Dating and Relationship Expert, John Aiken, continues to answer your questions about online dating, success and etiquette. Read more »
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Dear John - Online dating
Last week, we asked you to send in your questions on online dating. Thank you for getting in contact - there were so many interesting issues raised in relation to dating and etiquette especially. Because there were so many questions and popular topics, John will provide responses to a selection of questions over the next few weeks. Read more »
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Breaking the ice online
So, you've sent a kiss, received a positive kiss reply and now you want to send an email... but first, you need to figure out how to break the ice over email. It can be quite daunting - especially if you're new to the online dating experience. Where should you start? How do you approach someone and get the conversation flowing? Read more »
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Tips for sustaining sex drive in relationships
When people get into a relationship and the honeymoon period is over - a key issue that comes up for many couples is one partner complaining that they are not getting enough sex. As a relationship psychologist, I hear this complaint often and usually from men. Now this may have been an issue in your last relationship or it might be an issue in your next long-term relationship, so... Read more »
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Making sure your needs are met in a relationship
There's a lot to be said for making a great impression on someone by putting them first and being able to compromise. It shows that you have flexibility, you're understanding and you're not overly controlling. However, if you do too much of this, and give up most of your needs in a relationship to please your new partner, then ultimately things will fall over.
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Rejection or ruling out the unsuitable...it's up to you
Rejection is never easy. And getting rejected as part of the dating process can feel particularly painful. When you apply for a job and get rejected, you may feel disappointed but you can shrug it off as 'not having the right skills'. You might even be prepared to accept that 'the chemistry was not quite right' or there was a 'personality clash' with your potential employer. Read more »
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Safe Dating Reminder
At RSVP, member safety is paramount so we aim to regularly remind you about protecting your personal safety when dating. As with any type of dating, it's important to always use your common sense and trust your instincts. Rather than getting caught up in the moment, remember that you are getting to know someone new so there is no need to rush things. Read more »
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Timing in relationships
One of the great mysteries of falling in love is that you don't know when, where or how it's going to happen? And of course, the person that you meet may be in a totally different headspace to you. Specifically, the timing might be right for you but not for them. So what exactly does this mean for your chances of a long-term relationship with them? Read more »
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Winging it
A few weeks ago, 850 members completed a survey, sharing thoughts on the 'wingman theory' to help us find out if it actually works and why. Well, according to what you guys told us - having a wingman by your side when you're out on the town significantly increases your dating chances. Read more »
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Sex on the third date?
I love this time of year! RSVP puts out their annual Date of the Nation Report whereby 3,500 Australians tell us about their dating, sex and relationship behaviours. And, the figures we have from the 2013 report make for some very interesting reading!! Read more »
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Do nice guys/girls finish last in the dating game?
It might seem like a good idea to be overly nice to a new love interest when you first start dating. To always put them first and constantly be ready to change your plans to keep them happy. Surely if you do this, then they'll ultimately want to spend more and more time with you? Unfortunately, it doesn't tend to work out this way. Read more »
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