Friday, September 30, 2011

Blag Hag has moved to Freethought Blogs

Just in case you haven't changed your bookmarks or RSS feeds yet, here's a friendly reminded that this blog has moved and joined the Freethought Blogs network. You can now find me here, at http://freethoughtblogs.com/blaghag. Update those bookmarks! And if you follow me using an RSS feed, make sure to switch over to the new feed. I see lots of you are still following the old one.


Go! Join me in my new home.

Tuesday, September 20, 2011

Blag Hag has officially moved to Freethought Blogs!

Fairwell, Blogger. Blag Hag has a new home over at Freethought Blogs.

Well. A new secret home. I'm still waiting for my banner to appear on the front page. Consider this a VIP pre-release showing or something like that. Because you all are extra special!

What does this mean for you guys? Not much content-wise. I'll be blogging the same sort of stuff at the same frequency. ...Well, more frequently than this last week - I've been a bit busy. But you do have to update your links and such. freethoughblogs.com/blaghag is now the place to be!

I answer a lot more questions in my introductory post, including:
Q: Will the same RSS feed work, and if not, can you post that in large bold comic sans until my dumb ass gets the message and switches feeds?

I can’t figure out how to make things Comic Sans, but…

NO, THE OLD RSS FEED WILL NOT WORK. YOU MUST UPDATE YOUR RSS FEED TO THIS.

Got it? Good. Again, new RSS feed here.

The only posts I'll be making here from now on are things like, "Have you changed your RSS feed yet?" and "Heeeeey, where'd you all go?!"

See you at the new digs!

Monday, September 19, 2011

I hate technology

Sorry for the lack of updates lately. I've been spending all the time I usually allocate towards blogging to transferring over my archives to Freethought Blogs... and I'm having a hell of a time. The posts themselves transferred, but I still can't get my Disqus comments here on Blogger to transfer to Disqus comments on Wordpress. And then I have to get those Disqus comments to export to Wordpress, since we're not using Disqus there. And basically the Disqus instructions and functions are a steaming pile of poop, so I can't figure out if it's me doing something wrong, or Disqus.

Seriously, I hate crap like this. I want my archives on Freethought Blogs. Is that too much to ask?

I can't even imagine how much I'd want to bash my head into a wall if I attempted to set up redirects...

Halp?

Friday, September 16, 2011

On the sexist failures of geek culture

Read this piece. It's long, but worth it. Seriously, go, shoo.

I know far too many male (and female) geeks who slip into the type of hypocritical, misogynistic vitriol this article describes. But before you think I'm out to slander all geeks guys, I also know plenty that are kind, thoughtful, and - dare I say it? - feminists.

Oddly enough, those are the geek guys I date. What an peculiar coincidence!

More on my weird life

I went to a Weird Al concert (awesome) and returned home to find healthyaddict, Thunderf00t, and the hosts of Ask an Atheist in my apartment. I have an atheist videoblogger infestation. Send help.

...No, they did not break into my apartment. It is a long and not very interesting story. I rather perpetuate idea that atheist videobloggers come to be via spontaneous abiogenesis.

Thursday, September 15, 2011

The sacrificial atheist?

Spoiler warning: This post contains discussion about the season finale of True Blood and the movie The Ledge.

Atheists are popping up more and more in the television and movies. And like any minority group engaging in a civil rights movement - which, admit it or not, is what we're doing - portrayals of atheists are becoming less and less stereotypical. We're no longer nothing more than communist villains.

There are certainly stereotypical tropes about us being overly rational, cynical, heartless, selfish hedonists. Dexter, anyone? As much as I love House, he's not exactly the poster child of atheism. But even within that show, you see another atheist (Cameron) who is un-House-like in every way. And the number of human-like atheist characters is rising - Ellie in Contact, Kurt in Glee, Malcolm in Firefly, Bones.

But I've been noticing something recently. I hesitate to call it a trend, since I only have two data points so far. But this came up during a panel discussion I was on at the Midwest Humanist and Freethought Conference after we had watched The Ledge. The Ledge is a thriller revolving around the romance between an atheist, Gavin, and a woman, Shana, who is married to an emotional abusive religious zealot, Joe.

I really enjoyed the movie and highly recommend it. So if you haven't seen it, read forward at your own risk - because I'm about to give away the ending.

Joe eventually discovers the affair and puts Gavin in a situation were either he can die, or Shana dies. And surprisingly, the film doesn't have a predictable happy ending. The police don't find Shana at just the right time. Gavin doesn't have some quirky trick that makes it looks like he jumped from a 30 story building. Nope, he sacrifices himself for this woman.

And during this Sunday's season finale of True Blood, we see the same sacrificial atheist. Tara, who apparently everyone hates except me, is asked by her best friend Sookie if she thinks Gran is in heaven. Tara replies that she's always considered herself an atheist, but if there is a heaven, Gran would be president of it. Sookie then says that she wants to grow old together with her best friend, which let me know that Tara was almost certainly dying by the end of the episode.

And would you know it, in the last minute of the show, Tara jumps in front of Sookie to save her from a point blank range shotgun blast from a crazed werewolf lady. (You know, I never realized how dumb this show sounds until I have to type out what happened). People are discussing how she's probably going to be saved in the first 30 seconds of the new season, or turned into a vampire, or be a ghost for Lafayette to channel, or whatever...but you can't deny she sacrificed herself for her friend when half of her head was blown clean off.

When we were discussing the Ledge, we couldn't agree if portrayals like this were heroic or tragic. Is this showing atheists in a good light - that even though we don't believe in heavenly rewards or the afterlife, we're willing to give up the thing most dear to us for people we love? Or is it showing atheists as these tragic individuals who never have a happy ending?

I lean toward the former. As much as I don't want all of my atheist characters meeting untimely fates, I think it means something to give up your life when you're certain no afterlife is soon to follow. It shows that we do care about other people and have greater value and purpose in our lives, even if it's not handed down from a supernatural being. And I think it's the first step to portraying atheists as real people - and soon enough we won't have to keep dying to prove that point.

But again, not everyone agreed. What do you think? Do you know of any other atheist characters that fit or fight this trend?

Monday, September 12, 2011

Well, this was an odd day

Today was the last day of my parent's visit to Seattle. We were walking down to grab some Piroshky Piroshky for lunch, when a young man came up to me.

Guy: Excuse me, but... were you the one who did Boobquake?
Me: ...Yes.

He sheepishly waved hi and then ran away. And then tweeted at me that he was a blog reader and was sorry for being creepy. My parents thought it was fantastic, and wouldn't stop talking about how famous their daughter was.

I wondered what the odds were. I'm used to people recognizing me at godless or nerdy events, but randomly on the street seems way less likely. It had only happened once before, when I was on a terrible OkCupid date at the College Inn pub, and a random guy came up and asked if I had ever been on the Savage Lovecast. A potentially confusing question if the answer was "No," but he ended up being a fan of the blog.

Of course, Seattle is pretty godless and nerdy in general, so maybe I should just expect it.

After lunch, my dad and I wandered off to the Underground Tour and left my mom to spend an hour taking photos of the stupid fish throwing. Our tour guide was really funny, and I thought the tour was super interesting. About half way through as we were walking through some of the underground tunnels, she turned to me:

Guide: Have you been on the tour before? You look really familiar.
Me: ...No, but I live in Seattle.
Dad: (to me) I bet she reads your blog too!

Sure enough, at the end of the tour she very excitedly said she figured it out, she reads my blog, and omfgwtfbbq could she have my autograph!?! My dad couldn't stop talking about it - he thought it was the coolest thing ever. I assured him I wasn't paying these people off to make me look good while they were visiting.

Anyway, these little things totally make my day. Don't be shy if you ever see me roaming around. I'm happy to say hello!

On the flip side, they make me feel extra guilty when I realize I just spent another weekend not updating. Whoops. I've been having a life lately, which is a bit unusual. I'm sure I'll go back to my boring internet-fueled existence soon enough.