It was a treat for me and our family to spend a some time over the past few days with two priests friends, Fr. Ted and Fr. Dougal (not their real names).
Fr. Ted is a diocesan priest from Canada. He's a kind and generous and holy man, and a good priest. I really shouldn't have short-sheeted his bed this evening. Maybe he will blame Fr. Dougal, who is (much) younger, but also a kind and generous and holy man, and also a good priest - from Ireland.
I was giving Fr. Ted a hard time about something I had seen mentioned in his
homily blog more than once [
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I said, "I know that when you say 'stewardship', what you really mean is, 'please put more money in the basket'"
Fr. Ted said, "No, you've got it wrong. Financial giving is an important part of Christian Stewardship, and, as a Catholic you have an obligation to support the Church financially. But financial giving is not the full meaning of stewardship."
"I know it is," said I.
"Read the American Bishops' document on Stewardship, and see what you think then".
Fr. Dougal, meanwhile, fidgeting with a small electronic device, managed to email me a link to the American Bishop's 1992 Pastoral Letter, "
Stewardship: A Disciple’s Response".
I wanted to go to the battle prepared, so before opening the pastoral letter, I
searched the Vatican II documents for the word "stewardship". To my delight the word had not been mentioned!
I searched again, this time for "steward", and found only four references: one in
Apostolicam Actuositatem, the Decree on the Apostolate of the Laity; and three in
Lumen Gentium, the Dogmatic Constitution on the Church.
Unfortunately, I was disarmed very quickly. The first chapter of the decree is titled, "The Vocation of the Laity to the Apostolate". The second paragraph reads,
"Indeed, the organic union in this body [the Church] and the structure of the members are so compact that the member who fails to make his proper contribution to the development of the Church must be said to be useful neither to the Church nor to himself."
Ouch.
I've read once through the US Bishops' pastoral letter and concede that "Stewardship" isn't merely about supporting the Church financially, though that's an important part of it. More generally it's about the responsibility of nurturing and caring for what has been entrusted to us - our health, our families, our environment, our faith, much more, and yes, our Church.
Over the next while I am going to re-read these two documents from the Second Vatican Council with a view to re-discovering what it is I am called to as a Catholic Christian.
Meanwhile, I hope when Fr. Ted remembers his 25th anniversary celebrations, he will accept that I short-sheeted his bed only to make him feel young again.
Thanks for the link, Dougal!