Ask Bossy

Girls expect a little maintenance from men bossy, we expect some from the ladies too.

It’s got nothing to do with a pre pubescant look, it is all about making an oral experience being performed for the lady by the guy more pleasant for the guy and therefore longer lasting for the job he’s committed to.

Trim Bits = Everybody wins.

Sincerely.

I sure hope that YOU maintain yourself down there! We don’t like flossing with your crap either!

I’m assuming you do the same service for the lady you’re with.

isnt this mr captain truth teller? mr virgin whoz never been anywhere near a landing strip?

get a life mr wanker. stop watching p0rn and get a real gf.

then comment.... loserrrrrrrrr

I feel exactly the same way Bossy.  I feel really weird with absolutely no hair, like a little girl again and it weirds me out that that would turn people on..

I think its odd when women pull out the pre-pubesecent card. Why do you shave your legs? Why do men shave their faces? Do you like your men to look like pre-pubescent boys? I also discovered when I started manscaping that the ladies were much happier to visit L’il AFR. Ladies - keep your full bush, but don’t complain when your man isn’t going downtown.

while I wouldn’t dump a girl over something like this, I also prefer smooth and waxed/shaved. I don’t know about other guys, but I don’t want women to look like pre-pubescent girls. With the head as an exception, I just don’t like body hair in general on me or others.

Oh, snap Bossy.

It’s not just one way though Bossy. Hairphobic females are just as bad at making guys get rid of their pubes. Believe me, you should come to my gym and check out the change rooms: 80 per cent of guys between 18 and 40 have shaved or waxed everything off below their bikini line, front and back in some cases. It’s as attractive as a freshly plucked raw chook and looks particularly fetching on really hairy guys who now have a hairline just below their navel. So cool.

I think it’s quite acceptable that if you like to receive oral sex, that you should shave.  I don’t think that it makes woman look like pre-pubescant girls, I think it makes them look clean and touchably smooth. I absolutely hate having any sort of hair down there.  It makes me feel dirty and unattractive. What I don’t like though, is guys who shave.  It makes it look all bare and unmanly. I like a guy that really looks like a guy.  Plus it’s not as if guys pubic hair really gets in the way too much anyway…
All I could really suggest, OP, is that you shave it or embrace it.  If you & your hubby are both okay with hair down there, then you’ll have accept that hair turns grey as you age. I wouldn’t recommend putting dye anywhere near somewhere as sensitive as that.

who on earth would go out with a fella who called it “minge munching?” or even worse, let him near her. yuck.

Shaming language inferring paedophilia Bossy?

Would you use the same on a woman who likes alpha boorish behaviour as you do for a man that likes younger looking women?

It’s funny how so many men do not realise that the pubic hair is actually there to assist with lubrication during intercourse!

now now bossy that’s hardly the reason us fellas prefer smoothness, the fact is as long as there is hair, my face will never go there

I think it’s odd, that women like you Bossy, think men, think shaved fannies, is some love of prepubescent girls. It’s clean and you can see the lot. Nothing wrong with that. Unless it’s one of those outies that looks like a chook’s neck.

C’mon Bossy, there’s nothing wrong with a shaven haven between consenting adults

CTTOT - I wonder how old you are.........I am hairy and I wouldnt change it for the world and I have lovers who adore it as well.  Men like you have been conditioned by watching too much porn and thats all it is, conditioning.  I am the antithesis of a porn star (the way I look not the way I behave in bed) and I love being that way.  Never say never - I have known men who might in the firts instance not be too keen on an unshaved area but to actually come to love it.
Also all you pheremones are down there as well and that where a lot of attraction/lust comes from..........

Bossy, Brazilian rocks and if you know any pre-pubescent girls with fully developed breasts I’d avoid the water in that area!

Seriously, hair is there for the removing if you so desire, otherwise why bother with haircuts?  Is it pre-pubescent to wax armpits?  Blokes who shave their face are obviously freaks of society…

I think not, Brazilian is beautiful.

Unless it looks like a badly packed kebab in which case hair to go is acceptable as a warning to those who may wish to enter.

To be honest im more a fan of the landing strip!!! I like things to be nicely mainted in the basement, nothing worse than going down there to do some work to find the place has been trashed!!!

Valid point bossy! which is why i much prefer the landing strip to complete baldness

Bossy in all fairness, that is a generalisation.

I appreciate a trimmed and appropriate landing strip, i wont be dissapointed if it is pre-pubescent though. In fact, thats the only way she would receive a southern journey from my mouth.

But most definitely do not stand for the wild west of no razors or waxing dodads.

If you complain about the way an apple is in its natural state, don’t expect someone to peel it for you. Least of all, bake an apple pie for you to eat later on.

Its not Captain, Its corporal, 2 diff people, embrace corporal’s attack on CTT.

Hair there or not, i dont really care, never been with a shaven though and im keen. nothing to do with pre-pudescent crap what a load.

Its like people against anal sex saying no its an outtie!, and .. whats your vagina ? an inny ? dont you piss out it too, its as much ifnot more outtie than your ass?

Then theres the “sewer plant next to a Playground” line.. bullshit, whos to say your vagina isnt the sewer plant and your ass isnt the playrgound ? seriously, one sided views.

If you dont wanna do it dont do it, dont make up some bullshit to try make a guy feel bad by telling him hes a pedophile.

Ok I give up, this is almost certainly a daft question but what the hell does stang moot mean?  Never heard this one before.

I agree with Bossy… if your going to groom, leaving a little bit of hair seems less pre-pubescent.

BTW ‘T’ you say it doesnt look pre-pubescent, however a man who has no hair doesnt look like a guy??? Contradicting much?

Also as a woman I want my hair as it is. Besides, is there evidence to suggest pubic hair gets coarse after many amounts of waxing and shaving? Id rather keep my silky curls forever… maybe Ill plait them? Maybe it will be more attractive? HAHA

CTT jnr....

You would dump a girl with a landing strip???? Why? I think it combines the best of both world.... nicely waxed in all areas except for the top, so it doesnt look so pre-pubescent. To get a proper landing strip, it needs to be waxed all around, and the landing strip area given a number 1 buzz cut (although it could be something else).

Anyone growing a landing strip is just growing some regrowth

Nice one bossy…

Granny I’d embrace the salt and pepper coz so many never get to resemble the seasonings of life....

To clarify, this time 3yrs ago my mates 16yr old daughter was killed in a car accident, she never got the chance and too many other young’uns also meet an untimely end.

I’ve recently discovered that some of my old mates (who would now be 21 with 19yrs experience -aka 40- like me) also met untimely ends in their 30’s, which means they’ll never know what its like to have salt and pepper pubes either.

So in this over commercialised season of love and goodwill to all, spare a thought to those who arent here to share it with us. Some perspective never hurts....

And OP If hubby’s happy with the seasonings you’re providing then there is no issue, really. But if you’re finding them unpallatable then go see a counsellor for your grief over aging (because thats part of why you feel that way) and learn to love the fact that you’ve made it far enough to get *seasoned* in the autumn of your life....

Always remember that grey hair is very distinguished looking!

I started going grey at the carpets and curtains area at an early age (genetic, so pick your parents carefully), and I’ve just learned that keeping things trimmed down there is the best way to deal with it. Personally, I don’t like the idea of a Brazilian, I prefer a small amount of fuzz to prove that I’ve been and done puberty. I know that four children will also prove that, but anyway…

I suppose if you get really desperate and you have an important occasion coming up (hubby’s birthday, anniversary, or such like) you could always try a quick swipe of waterproof mascara in the appropriate shade.

embracing ageing is actually liberating..

Sorry Bossy, but who’s embracing it ?  Most of us are going down that slippery slope screaming and yelling,

Screaming and yelling? I think you’re doing it wrong - unless it’s the lady in question thats…

Oh..

I may have misinterpreted the nature of your comment there....

that’s a great answer Robbity.

I don’t really worry about how old I am because it is better than the alternative.

But she wants a Bazillion!

Love it…

Thanks for that amazon! I totally laughed out loud.

ha ha ha spot on yogi!!! you just described my favourite umm hege design, nice an smooth front to back with a lil bit of fluff up top! hmmmm not too sure about the frog however but interesting idea!

I know you didn’t mean it the way it appeared....But I am now intrigued by the ‘shame raspberry’.

Everyone who posted something like Anni-F, kindly get a sense of humour.

If you can’t appreciate the tongue-in-cheek tone in Grannygrey’s letter, and instead feel the need to harp on about “donating dye money to charity” and so on, please don’t even bother posting.

Anni-F - instead of wasting your time posting crap on the internet, why don’t you donate it volunterring to charity? 

Absolutely ridiculous comments from nearly everyone here.

Hahahaha, I scroll through this blog just to find your posts, fuckin’ crack me up all the time.

It’s all good until it starts growing back, and then you have to deal with spiky bits !!! What’s the female opinion on blokes doing the sack and crack wax?(and back, if necessary !)

@Jake, hello there!

Well, yes, there’s that hazard.  But with the whole summer thing and swimmers and what not, a waxing is the way to go.  Not all of it though, a landing strip will do.

Hmm, guys and waxing… I don’t know, I don’t see why guys have to do it.  I like guys with hair.  But if they want to do it, go for it.

It looks quite pretty (waxed) in some of the pornos I’ve seen.

I fear I’ve said too much.