This blog, a project of Wellington Action Against Rape, was set up to examine the news media’s reporting of issues relating to rape and sexual violence. We plan to point out examples where myths have been reinforced, where women (and sometimes men) have been blamed for violence against them or where they have simply not been permitted to tell their side of the story. And we also hope to find better examples of reporting, and hold them up as a model.
Of course, the media does not work in isolation. Not only are the myths they often reinforce widespread in society, but often they are reliant on the police and the courts for their information, institutions which have a great many flaws themselves. On top of that, they can be bound by legalities - suppression orders, and the risk of libel being the most obvious two. Nevertheless, we feel there is a lot more journalists could be doing in this area.
This article from a few days ago provides a good example of some of the things I’m talking about. Entitled ‘Girl, 12, admits rape claim was false, the first problem is with its very existence. Of all the rapes that occur each year (I’ve only been able to find statistics for those that make it to trial, which is in the high hundreds - those that actually occur is far, far, greater) most never reach the news. But those that are deemed (not necessarily correctly) to be false.
I’m not saying false complaints should never be reported. But I would like some balance and some context. I would like every rape to be given the same coverage (with respect for the survivor’s privacy, of course).
She had been at a krumping competition – a high-energy dance craze – with friends, while her parents thought she was sleeping safely at a relative’s home
Victim blaming is the phenomenon, often used in the courts and in the media, by which survivors of rape and sexual violence are blamed for it. It can be attributed to the clothes they were wearing, what they were doing at the time, whether they’d previously consented to sex with the rapist, whether they’d previously consented to sex with anyone ever… and so on. This is a prime example.
So, she disobeyed her parents. A twelve year old disobeying her parents. Shock! But for doing something which every twelve year old has done, she clearly deserves to be raped. This piece of information is completely irrelevant. I don’t care if she’s been torturing puppies, she still didn’t deserve it. And what’s with this assumption that she had been sleeping at a relatives house she would have been safe. Are these people completely unaware that most sexual violence is done by family members or friends?
And the police said:
“But, on the other hand, we are relieved there is not a rapist marauding around the Raureka area; that is comforting to the community.”
If this rape didn’t happen, it means precisely that. It does not, by any stretch of the imagination mean that there are no rapists in the area. Another assumption that the only rapes that happen are those reported to the police, and hey, apparently half of those don’t happen either.
The boy, who is known to the girl but is not a boyfriend, will be referred to Youth Aid.
This last sentence raises the biggest question mark of all. If there was nothing to the allegations at all, this boy would not be being referred to Youth Aid.
I don’t know what happened in this case. But since there is such a tendency to view women who make false or incorrect allegations as vicious and manipulative (along with a lot of women who make truthful and even provable complaints), here are a couple of alternative possitibilities:
1) A twelve year old is at a party with a group of friends. Most of them are older than her, and she’s doing her best to fit in. She’s flattered when a sixteen year old boy starts showing interest in her. He asks her to come for a walk with him. She’s a little nervous, but ashamed to turn him down, and she knows she will be looked up at school if she has an older boyfriend. They walk to the school grounds. He kisses her and she kisses him back. Then he rapes her.
She tells her parents who tell the police. The police put constant pressure on her, forcing her to relive the incident over and over again. They ask why she went with him alone, did she kiss him, why didn’t she scream? (She froze in terror, but in retrospect she doesn’t understand why.) In the end, it just seems easier and less painful to make things up.
2) A twelve year old girl was raped by a family friend, who threatened her if she told anyone. Moreover, she knows her parents like and trust him and doesn’t think she’ll be believed. But in the end the pain gets too much, and she’s desperate to tell someone. She doesn’t feel safe telling the truth, though, so she invents a story that still enables her to talk about how she feels. She didn’t expect the police to be called, but when they are they go over her story, find that it doesn’t add up, and she is forced to admit it wasn’t true.